Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Saturday, July 4, 2009
THINGS SHOULD BE TAKEN CARE BY A GIRL
1=Don't overdo it. It is always obvious when someone tries too hard.
You don't have to be tiny to be sexy! A healthy weight is best so don't overdo weight loss.
2=Beware of those strappy heels. They can cause mayhem if you don't pay attention!Practice, practice, practice at home.
3=Leave vanity behind! Don't squeeze into size 5 jeans if you are a size 7. Wearing clothes that are too small for you or don't fit is the worst thing to do. Don't try to make your body beautiful like a supermodel; make your body beautiful as it is.
Don't go overboard with makeup. You want people to appreciate your natural beauty, so use makeup as a tool to accent your best features.
4=In the eyes of some, genuine beauty is highly preferential to "sexiness" as described in the above article. Genuine beauty is not necessarily pertaining to that which glitters. For some, simple, yet complimenting, full clothing is far more desirable than a "sexy" look.
5=When applying make-up, emphasise EITHER your eyes OR your lips - NOT both. Heavily made-up eyes with full lips tends to appear too 'over-the-top' - concentrate on just one of these features. If you do overdo both features you'll just end up looking like a hooker!
6=Similarly, do not combine short skirts with low tops - go for either cleavage or legs; both together is overwhelming and cheap.
7=Don't feel threatened by another beautiful person!!! Everyone has something special or unique from another person. This includes YOU! Everyone has weaknesses and insecurities, even if it is not as obvious to other people. So be confident in your individual strengths and who you are.
8=Don't be a show off, you will be ridiculous instead of sexy.
9=Don't change your friends just because you met a sexy new group of friends.
You don't have to be tiny to be sexy! A healthy weight is best so don't overdo weight loss.
2=Beware of those strappy heels. They can cause mayhem if you don't pay attention!Practice, practice, practice at home.
3=Leave vanity behind! Don't squeeze into size 5 jeans if you are a size 7. Wearing clothes that are too small for you or don't fit is the worst thing to do. Don't try to make your body beautiful like a supermodel; make your body beautiful as it is.
Don't go overboard with makeup. You want people to appreciate your natural beauty, so use makeup as a tool to accent your best features.
4=In the eyes of some, genuine beauty is highly preferential to "sexiness" as described in the above article. Genuine beauty is not necessarily pertaining to that which glitters. For some, simple, yet complimenting, full clothing is far more desirable than a "sexy" look.
5=When applying make-up, emphasise EITHER your eyes OR your lips - NOT both. Heavily made-up eyes with full lips tends to appear too 'over-the-top' - concentrate on just one of these features. If you do overdo both features you'll just end up looking like a hooker!
6=Similarly, do not combine short skirts with low tops - go for either cleavage or legs; both together is overwhelming and cheap.
7=Don't feel threatened by another beautiful person!!! Everyone has something special or unique from another person. This includes YOU! Everyone has weaknesses and insecurities, even if it is not as obvious to other people. So be confident in your individual strengths and who you are.
8=Don't be a show off, you will be ridiculous instead of sexy.
9=Don't change your friends just because you met a sexy new group of friends.
SEXY LOOKS FOR GIRLS
1=Get groomed. Work with what you've got. But keep it neat and tidy! Trim finger and toe nails weekly, remembering to clean under the nail. No fancy nail polish colours are needed, but a simple beige colour can play down any nail discolouration. If you choose to sculpt your eyebrows, get them waxed at a professional place -if you choose to pluck try to stencil the desired shape (using a stencil kit *BE REALISTIC!*)that will help avoid over plucking- it's not really attractive.Once every 2 or 3 weeks, have a pampering day, including a manicure, pedicure, facial, and bubble bath, even if it's just a spa day at home.
2=Get clean. Bathe once every day. Feeling and looking clean is crucial. Wash with a nice smelling body soap three times with a bathing sponge and it will smell great. Get out and pat yourself dry with a towel, and rub in some rich body lotion. You need to be soft and able to cuddle at all times (do not neglect your hands, elbows, and feet). If possible try to layer matching scents on your body, such as soap, lotion, powder, and perfume. For example if you bathe with a citrus smelling body soap, try to wear a citrus-smelling lotion also.
3=Style your hair. Make a trip to the hair salon. A new cut or style will make you feel sexy and confident. Having a change of hair colour is nice, too. Go for something natural and not too dramatic. Deep condition your hair at least once a month. In the mornings, flat iron your hair or put it in a messy bun, depending on your style. Adding extensions or a wig can radically change an everyday look from "ho-hum" to "wow" to turn a few heads. Studies show that most men are more attracted to longer hair - this is because longer, glossier hair is associated with health; if you get ill, the first thing the body stops maintaining is your hair in order to concentrate on sustaining more vital areas. And since in terms of evolution, it makes more sense for a guy to be attracted to a healthy girl, it's become natural to be attracted to hair that looks more healthy!
4=Create winning skin. Do a steam facial maybe once a week for up to 10 minutes, to open up your pores and get rid of blackheads and acne. To do this, get a bowl of boiling water and a towel, and just sit with your face in the steam, using the towel as a little tent/mini sauna over your head and the bowl. Caution: doing it for longer then 10 minutes will just stress out your skin, which will just make it worse! Wash your face right away afterwards with a cleanser made for your type of skin. Then rinse and splash your face with cold water to close your pores or, alternatively, get an ice cube and wait for it to melt a little. Then smooth it gently over your face until it melts; this closes your pores and prevents dirt going back into them. An alternative to this is to use a facial scrub to get rid of flaky, dead skin cells.
5=Show your style.
Invest in a good pair of curve-hugging jeans. Dark denim looks good on all body types. Jeans are the ultimate sexy accessory when paired with a tank top or baby tee. Up it a notch and add some strappy heels.
Pick some clothes that flatter your figure and that you feel comfortable in. There's no point picking the latest fashions if you don't feel comfortable in them! Pick clothes that make you feel like you!
Wear lace-up flats or sneakers. Flats are cute and comfortable--two characteristics that you rarely ever find in the shoe department!
Wear jewelery that excites you. Find colourful, fun, bright chunky necklaces and bracelets, but if you wear lots of pearls and beads, don't wear a shirt that has a pattern or a picture on it. Wear a monochromatic top with lots of multi-coloured jewelery.
Black is sexy. It hides fat rolls, creates curves and makes you feel like a goddess.
Sexy undergarments. wear a thong or a G - string with the back of it showing men love that...
6=Take up dancing. Sign up for lessons with a friend--salsa, ballet, hip-hop, ballroom, whatever you like. You'll gain confidence, and you will move more gracefully and sexily in everything you do, without even thinking about it. (health benefits are an obvious bonus!) Belly dancing is also another way to feel sexy and confident!
7=Wear make-up. Just make sure not to go overboard -- subtle is very sexy. Accent one feature at a time! For example, one day, put on lip-liner, bold red lipstick, and mascara. For another day, wear subtle pink or clear lip gloss, and wear eye-liner to make your eyes stand out. If you need help creating a look, a mall makeup counter or independent beauty consultant would be happy to teach you for free.
8=Get-in-Shape. Create a workout plan. Crunches/Lunges equal flat, hard ab muscles, lunges equal toned legs, and squats equal a toned backside. Running or jogging works all muscles of the body and increases your stamina. Plus, the hormones your body releases while exercising carry on through your evening activities to contribute to your new sexy attitude.
Remember that if your workout goal is to lose weight, you're going to need to sweat, and for an extended period of time. Lifting weights will help you drop pounds, since muscle mass burns calories increasing your metabolism. If weight loss is your goal, a good starting point is to do something that gets your heart rate up--like walking briskly, swimming, dancing, or biking--for 30 minutes, 3 times per week. Most importantly, make sure you are burning more calories in a day than you consume. This is the only way you will ever lose weight. If you exercise a bunch but then gorge yourself you will be more fit but still will not lose fat.
Choose a work-out regimen that you enjoy. Hate running? Then don't run! Try different activities until you find one that makes you happier than you were when you began. Then, stick with it. Give it a week or two; once you're "over the hump," it will start feeling like fun instead of torture.
If you're dissatisfied with your body, by all means, work on getting healthier--but remember that "sexy" isn't a body shape. It's an aura. So start working on feeling sexy now! Getting slim and toned can augment sexiness, but it can never replace it. Owning a Steinway isn't the same thing as being a master pianist; in the same way, owning a "hot" body isn't the same thing as being sexy. Learn to play the "piano" you've got! Work it and love it, and everyone else will too.
Sexy doesn't equal skinny. men are much more attracted to curves
2=Get clean. Bathe once every day. Feeling and looking clean is crucial. Wash with a nice smelling body soap three times with a bathing sponge and it will smell great. Get out and pat yourself dry with a towel, and rub in some rich body lotion. You need to be soft and able to cuddle at all times (do not neglect your hands, elbows, and feet). If possible try to layer matching scents on your body, such as soap, lotion, powder, and perfume. For example if you bathe with a citrus smelling body soap, try to wear a citrus-smelling lotion also.
3=Style your hair. Make a trip to the hair salon. A new cut or style will make you feel sexy and confident. Having a change of hair colour is nice, too. Go for something natural and not too dramatic. Deep condition your hair at least once a month. In the mornings, flat iron your hair or put it in a messy bun, depending on your style. Adding extensions or a wig can radically change an everyday look from "ho-hum" to "wow" to turn a few heads. Studies show that most men are more attracted to longer hair - this is because longer, glossier hair is associated with health; if you get ill, the first thing the body stops maintaining is your hair in order to concentrate on sustaining more vital areas. And since in terms of evolution, it makes more sense for a guy to be attracted to a healthy girl, it's become natural to be attracted to hair that looks more healthy!
4=Create winning skin. Do a steam facial maybe once a week for up to 10 minutes, to open up your pores and get rid of blackheads and acne. To do this, get a bowl of boiling water and a towel, and just sit with your face in the steam, using the towel as a little tent/mini sauna over your head and the bowl. Caution: doing it for longer then 10 minutes will just stress out your skin, which will just make it worse! Wash your face right away afterwards with a cleanser made for your type of skin. Then rinse and splash your face with cold water to close your pores or, alternatively, get an ice cube and wait for it to melt a little. Then smooth it gently over your face until it melts; this closes your pores and prevents dirt going back into them. An alternative to this is to use a facial scrub to get rid of flaky, dead skin cells.
5=Show your style.
Invest in a good pair of curve-hugging jeans. Dark denim looks good on all body types. Jeans are the ultimate sexy accessory when paired with a tank top or baby tee. Up it a notch and add some strappy heels.
Pick some clothes that flatter your figure and that you feel comfortable in. There's no point picking the latest fashions if you don't feel comfortable in them! Pick clothes that make you feel like you!
Wear lace-up flats or sneakers. Flats are cute and comfortable--two characteristics that you rarely ever find in the shoe department!
Wear jewelery that excites you. Find colourful, fun, bright chunky necklaces and bracelets, but if you wear lots of pearls and beads, don't wear a shirt that has a pattern or a picture on it. Wear a monochromatic top with lots of multi-coloured jewelery.
Black is sexy. It hides fat rolls, creates curves and makes you feel like a goddess.
Sexy undergarments. wear a thong or a G - string with the back of it showing men love that...
6=Take up dancing. Sign up for lessons with a friend--salsa, ballet, hip-hop, ballroom, whatever you like. You'll gain confidence, and you will move more gracefully and sexily in everything you do, without even thinking about it. (health benefits are an obvious bonus!) Belly dancing is also another way to feel sexy and confident!
7=Wear make-up. Just make sure not to go overboard -- subtle is very sexy. Accent one feature at a time! For example, one day, put on lip-liner, bold red lipstick, and mascara. For another day, wear subtle pink or clear lip gloss, and wear eye-liner to make your eyes stand out. If you need help creating a look, a mall makeup counter or independent beauty consultant would be happy to teach you for free.
8=Get-in-Shape. Create a workout plan. Crunches/Lunges equal flat, hard ab muscles, lunges equal toned legs, and squats equal a toned backside. Running or jogging works all muscles of the body and increases your stamina. Plus, the hormones your body releases while exercising carry on through your evening activities to contribute to your new sexy attitude.
Remember that if your workout goal is to lose weight, you're going to need to sweat, and for an extended period of time. Lifting weights will help you drop pounds, since muscle mass burns calories increasing your metabolism. If weight loss is your goal, a good starting point is to do something that gets your heart rate up--like walking briskly, swimming, dancing, or biking--for 30 minutes, 3 times per week. Most importantly, make sure you are burning more calories in a day than you consume. This is the only way you will ever lose weight. If you exercise a bunch but then gorge yourself you will be more fit but still will not lose fat.
Choose a work-out regimen that you enjoy. Hate running? Then don't run! Try different activities until you find one that makes you happier than you were when you began. Then, stick with it. Give it a week or two; once you're "over the hump," it will start feeling like fun instead of torture.
If you're dissatisfied with your body, by all means, work on getting healthier--but remember that "sexy" isn't a body shape. It's an aura. So start working on feeling sexy now! Getting slim and toned can augment sexiness, but it can never replace it. Owning a Steinway isn't the same thing as being a master pianist; in the same way, owning a "hot" body isn't the same thing as being sexy. Learn to play the "piano" you've got! Work it and love it, and everyone else will too.
Sexy doesn't equal skinny. men are much more attracted to curves
MAGICAL TIPS TO ALLURE GIRL
1=If a girl does not give you a response, don't take it to heart -- remain cool and think of your future with a new girl.
2=Different time frames for hair-washing apply to different people. If your hair is dirty and greasy between times when you wash it, make it a habit to wash it more often. Likewise, if you don't need to wash your hair every other day, don't feel like you have to anyway.
3=Gain confidence in yourself by doing things like exercise, running a half marathon, building something, or playing an instrument. These things will give you confidence and it will show and attract others to you.
4=If you're trying to get a girlfriend talk to them. Say "hi" and start a conversation. She will most likely talk to you if you start a conversation.
Girls like boys that pay attention to everybody, not just your clique.
5=Look at the girl in that other clique. The one you sit next to in Science. She might just be cool and she probably likes you too.
6=Walk past her slowly but not too slow or she will think you have problems.
A small touch on the arm, shoulder, or head can give a girl chills if she likes you. You definitely notice the attention.
7=Remember to check out the whole grade. There are some girls out there that are awesome and just aren't so popular. They would love some attention. And they don't expect so much so you can be more relaxed.
8=Being aloof at the appropriate times can work wonders. Don't bathe a girl in attention - this is not sexy and you'll probably suffocate her. Being laid back will show everyone that you value yourself and that is sexy.
2=Different time frames for hair-washing apply to different people. If your hair is dirty and greasy between times when you wash it, make it a habit to wash it more often. Likewise, if you don't need to wash your hair every other day, don't feel like you have to anyway.
3=Gain confidence in yourself by doing things like exercise, running a half marathon, building something, or playing an instrument. These things will give you confidence and it will show and attract others to you.
4=If you're trying to get a girlfriend talk to them. Say "hi" and start a conversation. She will most likely talk to you if you start a conversation.
Girls like boys that pay attention to everybody, not just your clique.
5=Look at the girl in that other clique. The one you sit next to in Science. She might just be cool and she probably likes you too.
6=Walk past her slowly but not too slow or she will think you have problems.
A small touch on the arm, shoulder, or head can give a girl chills if she likes you. You definitely notice the attention.
7=Remember to check out the whole grade. There are some girls out there that are awesome and just aren't so popular. They would love some attention. And they don't expect so much so you can be more relaxed.
8=Being aloof at the appropriate times can work wonders. Don't bathe a girl in attention - this is not sexy and you'll probably suffocate her. Being laid back will show everyone that you value yourself and that is sexy.
LOOK SEXY (BOYS)
1=Make sure you have good hygiene.
Brush twice a day, and floss once a day
Wear deodorant every day. Body odor is not an attractive smell, and nobody around you enjoys it. It's a simple routine that can reap large benefits in your friendships, relationships, and with strangers!
If your face is clean shaven, shave regularly. Stubble, when it's not intentionally there, promotes a look of unkempt.
Wash your face every day. This helps to clear up whiteheads/blackheads, as well. However, if you are a teenager, acne is quite normal, and occurs quite often. It will be hard for you to stop getting acne. If you have a severe problem with acne, your regular doctor can most likely refer you to a good dermatologist.
2=Wash your hair at least every other day (washing in the morning prevents going out with the grease of last night). A girl loves a boy who smells nice, and cares about his image. Besides, greasy hair is not a good look on anybody, even if they look like Brad Pitt. By taking care of your hair, you at least show that you're interested in your appearance and care enough about yourself to take good care of yourself.
3=Wear a nice cologne. It is truly amazing how it attracts attention. Don't bathe in it, though, or it'll do the opposite of the intention.
4=Be confident in yourself. Girls love guys who are confident, and confidence is also the key to getting ahead in the business world. Unless you believe in yourself, you can't sell yourself, so less people will believe in you. Remember, though, that there is a line between confidence and arrogance. Arrogance is not sexy.
5=Wear nice clothes. The style of clothes that you wear doesn't matter, because you're expressing your personality. Whatever you choose to wear, though, should be clean and ironed (if appropriate). Also do not wear pants that show alot of boxer. This is not sexy. It is gross to almost all girls. If you are going to wear jeans, make sure they are not too baggy. This does not look good
6=Be funny! A girl loves a guy who can genuinely make her laugh. If you notice she is being turned off by your sense of humor (which you will be able to tell by her body language) then stop. Give her space.
7=Smile because girls love smiles. It makes them feel beautiful.
8=BE BINDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Brush twice a day, and floss once a day
Wear deodorant every day. Body odor is not an attractive smell, and nobody around you enjoys it. It's a simple routine that can reap large benefits in your friendships, relationships, and with strangers!
If your face is clean shaven, shave regularly. Stubble, when it's not intentionally there, promotes a look of unkempt.
Wash your face every day. This helps to clear up whiteheads/blackheads, as well. However, if you are a teenager, acne is quite normal, and occurs quite often. It will be hard for you to stop getting acne. If you have a severe problem with acne, your regular doctor can most likely refer you to a good dermatologist.
2=Wash your hair at least every other day (washing in the morning prevents going out with the grease of last night). A girl loves a boy who smells nice, and cares about his image. Besides, greasy hair is not a good look on anybody, even if they look like Brad Pitt. By taking care of your hair, you at least show that you're interested in your appearance and care enough about yourself to take good care of yourself.
3=Wear a nice cologne. It is truly amazing how it attracts attention. Don't bathe in it, though, or it'll do the opposite of the intention.
4=Be confident in yourself. Girls love guys who are confident, and confidence is also the key to getting ahead in the business world. Unless you believe in yourself, you can't sell yourself, so less people will believe in you. Remember, though, that there is a line between confidence and arrogance. Arrogance is not sexy.
5=Wear nice clothes. The style of clothes that you wear doesn't matter, because you're expressing your personality. Whatever you choose to wear, though, should be clean and ironed (if appropriate). Also do not wear pants that show alot of boxer. This is not sexy. It is gross to almost all girls. If you are going to wear jeans, make sure they are not too baggy. This does not look good
6=Be funny! A girl loves a guy who can genuinely make her laugh. If you notice she is being turned off by your sense of humor (which you will be able to tell by her body language) then stop. Give her space.
7=Smile because girls love smiles. It makes them feel beautiful.
8=BE BINDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Monday, March 30, 2009
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Thursday, March 26, 2009
KISSING SECRETS
Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.
Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.
Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.
Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.
Eye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go... then slowly kiss up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.
Eyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed, very very gently kiss the spot right below their browbone. A very intimate kiss.
Finger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.
Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.
Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.
Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.
French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss".
Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.
Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.
Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.
Hostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!
Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.
Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.
Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.
Lick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual.
Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.
Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.
Reverse Lips Kiss - It involves standing above your lover and kissing them from over their head. This way, each kisser can take the hyper-sensitive bottom lip of thier lover in their mouths, and GENTLY draw blood to the surface of the lip by nibbling and sucking. A very sensuous, connecting kiss.
Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue to gently tickle and kiss your lover's navel. Vary speeds and stroke to change sensation. Invigorating and intoxicating.
Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.
Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.
Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."
Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.
The Whipped Cream Kiss - Dip your finger into some cool whip or whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your partner and kiss them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for a wonderfully sweet kiss. It's very seductive and passionate.
Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very sexy :-)
Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.
Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.
Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!
Virtual Kiss - For Internet lovers. Send an e-card or a kiss via email with this symbol: :-*
Meanings of Kisses
Kiss on the hand - I adore you.
Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends.
Kiss on the neck - I want you.
Kiss on the lips - I love you.
Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun.
Kiss on the nose - Let's get silly.
Kiss anywhere else - You're the best.
HOT KISS
Poem Author: Unknown
Antagonizing pleasure
Placed upon my lips
Where dreams come true
In just one kiss!
Sharing an afternoon of ecstasy
Closing the door on reality
Not even the thickest iceberg
Could melt the lust I feel inside!
I shed my fears faster than my clothes
The anticipation begins to unfold
My heart begins to pound faster
As you come closer
Just one look from your eyes
And I become hypnotized
A river of sins, to which I concede
Just one kiss, caused the undoing of me!
Your lips gently pressed against mine
A silent submission of tongues intertwined
My mouth tenderly pressed against yours
My voice trembles as you start to explore
Electric shocks as your tongue touches mine
An erotic dance of passing time
My heart's racing as fast as yours
My body's craving for something more!
Starving and Craving
For an evening
Of erotic bliss
Where dreams come true
In Just One Kiss.
See Part II: Romantic Kisses
Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.
Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.
Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.
Eye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go... then slowly kiss up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.
Eyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed, very very gently kiss the spot right below their browbone. A very intimate kiss.
Finger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.
Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.
Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.
Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.
French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss".
Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.
Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.
Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.
Hostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!
Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.
Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.
Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.
Lick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual.
Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.
Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.
Reverse Lips Kiss - It involves standing above your lover and kissing them from over their head. This way, each kisser can take the hyper-sensitive bottom lip of thier lover in their mouths, and GENTLY draw blood to the surface of the lip by nibbling and sucking. A very sensuous, connecting kiss.
Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue to gently tickle and kiss your lover's navel. Vary speeds and stroke to change sensation. Invigorating and intoxicating.
Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.
Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.
Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."
Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.
The Whipped Cream Kiss - Dip your finger into some cool whip or whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your partner and kiss them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for a wonderfully sweet kiss. It's very seductive and passionate.
Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very sexy :-)
Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.
Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.
Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!
Virtual Kiss - For Internet lovers. Send an e-card or a kiss via email with this symbol: :-*
Meanings of Kisses
Kiss on the hand - I adore you.
Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends.
Kiss on the neck - I want you.
Kiss on the lips - I love you.
Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun.
Kiss on the nose - Let's get silly.
Kiss anywhere else - You're the best.
HOT KISS
Poem Author: Unknown
Antagonizing pleasure
Placed upon my lips
Where dreams come true
In just one kiss!
Sharing an afternoon of ecstasy
Closing the door on reality
Not even the thickest iceberg
Could melt the lust I feel inside!
I shed my fears faster than my clothes
The anticipation begins to unfold
My heart begins to pound faster
As you come closer
Just one look from your eyes
And I become hypnotized
A river of sins, to which I concede
Just one kiss, caused the undoing of me!
Your lips gently pressed against mine
A silent submission of tongues intertwined
My mouth tenderly pressed against yours
My voice trembles as you start to explore
Electric shocks as your tongue touches mine
An erotic dance of passing time
My heart's racing as fast as yours
My body's craving for something more!
Starving and Craving
For an evening
Of erotic bliss
Where dreams come true
In Just One Kiss.
See Part II: Romantic Kisses
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
HOW TO MAKE YOUR NIGHT ROMANTIC
# 1
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her that you are worried about her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear.
# 2
Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as "I Love You" When the lights go down, your message will be revealed!
# 3
On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven real red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the center of the bouquet. Attach a card that says: “I will love you until the last rose fades.”
# 4
Buy the domain name of your partner's name if it is available for example www.chabeeli.blogspot.com. Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture of a rose. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.
# 5
Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying “In this mirror you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world.”
# 6
Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following exert from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message "I love you" The palace was a labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve's feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted. The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper message such as "Dear Belinda, I love you honey"
# 7
Have flowers delivered to your partner's workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her office mates which will add to her enjoyment.
# 8
While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you're going to keep it as a special memento of your trip. Later, have a message such as "I Love Rebecca" engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.
# 9
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds. Play the kid’s game of looking for shapes in the cloud formations.
# 10
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write "I Love You" inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's work such as: For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones Level 20 Collins & Smith Solicitors New York Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day.
# 11
Memorize one of Shakespeare's love sonnets and recite it to your partner when you are in a romantic setting like a botanical garden. Don't just suddenly start reciting poetry as this will just sound corny. While you are cuddling your partner, ask in a joking manner, "So is now a good time to recite a love poem to you?" She will probably say yes, expecting you to come up with something of the "Roses are Red..." variety. Instead, look into her eyes, smile and recite the sonnet while you gently stroke her face. Try the sonnet below. If this is too long, just memorize the first four lines and the last two. Shakespeare Love Sonnet 18 Shall I compare thee to a summer's day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate. Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May, And summer's lease hath all too short a date. Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines, And often is his gold complexion dimmed, And every fair from fair sometime declines, By chance or nature's changing course untrimmed. But thy eternal summer shall not fade, Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest, Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st. So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see, So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.
# 12
If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her favorite things such as chocolates, herbal tea, cookies, a small teddy bear. Next, get a piece of paper and write "Michelle's Late Night Survival Pack" Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell your partner to open the box when things get really tough.
# 13
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from her childhood.
# 14
Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."
# 15
If your partner is starting a new job, buy a copy of "The Sound Of Music" sound track. Tape the song, "I Have Confidence" onto a tape and add your own message at the end of the song saying, "Good Luck honey, I have confidence in you." Give the tape to your partner to play on the way to work in the car.
# 16
Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great Masseur. For an appointment ring: (Your Phone Number)
# 17
When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead.
# 18
For this idea you will need a portable CD player. If you and your partner have a favorite song, get a copy of it on CD and take it with you when you go away for a romantic weekend. When you are in a romantic spot, ask your partner if she would like to dance. Place one earpiece in her ear and one in your own and enjoy your private dance floor. This technique is particularly effective if the romantic spot you have chosen is somewhere where people would not normally dance, for example, the top of the Empire State building at sunset or on top of a mountain during a camping trip.
# 19
If your partner has a pet that she adores, at Christmas, in addition to buying a gift for your partner, buy a small present for her pet.
# 20
Go for a walk on the beach. Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.
# 21
Invite your partner to go for a walk. Get a back pack and pack the following items: A picnic blanket, a selection of fruit in small containers eg. strawberries, grapes, watermelon and kiwi fruit. Some cheese and crackers. Some sandwiches. A small tin of caviar. A half bottle of champagne and two plastic champagne glasses. If your partner asks what's in the backpack, just say a jacket and some lunch. When you find a romantic spot, ask if she would like to stop for a bite to eat. Open your pack and remove the items one by one to set up your picnic. The last item you remove should be the glasses and champagne.
# 22
If you play a musical instrument, create a romantic environment in which to play for your partner. For example, let's say you play the saxophone. Contact your partner's roommate and arrange for her to make sure that your partner steps out onto the balcony of their apartment at exactly 9.30pm. Drive to her apartment and set up before hand. Place a large sparkler in the music holder of your sax and light it as your partner steps on to the balcony. Play something slow and romantic.
# 23
Use this idea if your partner is going to work and you are staying at home for some reason (Perhaps you are sick or are working from home). Say goodbye to her at the front door and then immediately send an email to her work address. The email should simply say, "Miss you already". The email will be in her in-box when she does her morning email check.
# 24
If your partner has long hair, take the time to brush it using long slow strokes. This is particularly effective after she has had a shower or when she is getting ready for bed.
# 25
On a special occasion like your partner's birthday, plan a treasure hunt for her. The fun begins when you suggest going for a walk on the beach. When you get to the beach, carry a small bag with you. The bag contains a bottle that you prepared earlier. Inside the bottle is a treasure map. To make the treasure map look authentic, burn the edges with a match. As you are walking, slip the bottle out of your bag and let it drop to the sand near the water's edge. You may have to pause and kiss your partner to do this unnoticed. Walk a little further up the beach then turn around and retrace your steps to 'discover' the bottle. On the map have a dotted line leading from the beach to a nearby cafe. At the cafe, your partner won't know what to look for so suggest that you just sit down and have a cup of coffee. When the waitress delivers the coffee, she suggests to your partner that she might find what she is looking for under the coaster. When your partner turns over the coaster she finds a key taped to the bottom. Obviously you will have to set this up before hand with the waitress. Most waitresses will be happy to help a romantic guy out with this type of thing. At the next stop on the map, your partner finds or is given a spade. Then at the last stop on the map your partner finds a large 'X' made up of two crossed sticks. She digs and discovers a locked box. The key unlocks the box to reveal her present.
# 26
Invite your partner on a date by sending her a plain brown envelope containing a tape. On the tape, record the Mission Impossible sound track and then record yourself saying, “Your mission if you choose to accept it is to make your way to Café Venoli, 123 Park Lane at 18.30 Eastern Standard Time. There you will rendezvous with a stunningly attractive man wearing a red carnation. The future of the free world is now in your hands. This tape will self destruct in five seconds.” Then record ten beeps from a stopwatch and record yourself saying, “Would you believe ten seconds…” Its corny but it usually gets a laugh!
# 27
Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.
# 28
Organize a professional photo shoot to obtain a portrait of the two of you as a couple. Frame the picture and put it somewhere prominent. Remember to make sure you give your partner plenty of notice so that she can get ready.
# 29
Write a note saying "I thought of you today, and it made me smile." Leave the note somewhere where your partner is sure to find it.
# 30
For Valentines Day, buy your partner a charm bracelet with at least 14 charms. Remove all the charms and let your partner 'find' one charm each day for the first fourteen days of February. On Valentines Day give her the bracelet and any remaining charms.
# 31
When you and your partner are in a shopping center or airport, stop at one of those booths that allow you to take an instant photo and print them out as stickers. Choose a romantic background and kiss your partner while the photo is being taken.
# 32
If your partner has voice mail at work or on her mobile, leave a message saying "Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you." She will appreciate this anytime but especially when she is going through a rough period.
# 33
Organize a mystery trip for you and your partner. Some travel agents will organize mystery packages where the destination of the trip is kept secret until you are actually on the plane or arrive at the destination.
# 34
Buy some rose petals and place them behind the sun visor on the passenger side of your car. Take a post it note and write, "I Love You" on it and stick it to the back of the sun visor. As you are driving to a romantic destination, look at your partner and tell her she has a mark on her cheek. She will pull down the sun visor to use the mirror and be showered in rose petals and see your note.
# 35
If your partner is going on a trip, pack a small present into the corner of her suitcase that she will find when she is away.
# 36
When you and your partner are having an anniversary, buy two champagne glasses and get them engraved with your names and the date, for example:
Mal and Kate 7 May 2002
Go to the restaurant where you have made your reservations and request that when you and your partner arrive that your champagne be served in your special glasses. This will be a great surprise for your partner and a wonderful keepsake for you both.
# 37
On a special occasion such as your partner's birthday, buy twenty-four red roses. Arrange to meet her at a specific spot in a shopping mall before going out for dinner. Get to the shopping mall early and position yourself around the corner from your meeting spot. Ask a guy who is walking by whether he would mind helping you out. Give him a rose, point out your partner and ask him to walk up to her and say, "Happy Birthday Meagan" and give her the rose and then walk away. Repeat this with eleven other guys. Choose guys who are not too good looking and choose guys of different ages. A nice touch is to have the last rose delivered by a small child who could even by accompanied by his parents. After the first twelve flowers have been delivered, approach your partner with the twelve remaining roses.
# 38
Always listen for things that your partner reminisces about and jot them down somewhere. For example, perhaps she talks about the ice cream that she had from a particular shop when she was a little girl. When a special occasion comes along, check your list of things that your partner talks about and try to recreate one of them, for example, visit the shop and buy a tub of ice cream making sure that the name of the shop is on the container.
# 39
Create a love montage by collecting some photographs of you and your partner, some ticket stubs of places you have visited and any other small odds and ends that have special meaning to you both. Take these items and get them professionally framed in a three dimensional montage. Alternatively, buy a frame and create a simple montage yourself.
# 40
Buy an ornately carved wooden box which is lined with green or red felt. Find an old fashioned key and place it in the box. Next, get a small gold plaque and have it engraved with the words
The Key To My Heart
Fix the plaque to the inside of the top of the box so that it can be read when the box is opened.
# 41
Buy a tree with your partner and plant it in a special spot. Each year on your anniversary, have a glass of champagne next to your tree and talk about how your love and the tree have grown.
# 42
If you shower first in the morning. Steam up the bathroom and write a message such as "Pete Loves Kathy" on the mirror for your partner to read when she uses the bathroom. This also works on car windows when it's cold.
# 43
As a special gift, name a Star after your partner. A number of astronomical agencies allow individuals to name stars and you receive formal documentation identifying the star that you have named. See the following website for details: http://www.smssher.blogspot.com
# 44
Find a comic strip that relates to something that you and your partner have shared together, for example perhaps you both work in the same office and you find a Dilbert cartoon that relates to the politics at your workplace. Enlarge the cartoon using a photocopier and use white-out to cover the cartoon text. Type up your own text that relates to you and your partner and paste it in the appropriate places and then photocopy the cartoon again so that it looks like your text was the actual text of the cartoon. For an added touch, get your customized cartoon laminated before giving it to your partner.
# 45
When you and your partner are enjoying a restful time away, organize to wake up early one morning and go to a scenic spot to watch the sun rise. This may seem difficult but it is something which is definitely worth doing at least once. Seeing a new day being born is something really special to share with your partner.
# 46
When you have access to a spa, create a romantic atmosphere by placing some candles around the tub and some rose petals floating on the surface of the water. As your partner enjoys the water, serve champagne and chocolate covered strawberries before joining her.
# 47
Create some love coupons that your partner can exchange for romantic favors. For example you could have a coupon that reads This coupon entitles the bearer to: One Foot Massage. Use by 07/08/2045 Use a date many years in the future if you want to suggest that you and your partner will always be together. Get 50 love coupons at this site: http://www.vdayspl.blogspot.com
# 48
On a warm summers night, organize a backyard picnic. Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.
# 49
Next time it is raining really heavily, go for a walk with your partner. Forget the umbrellas and the raincoats. Run through the streets together, jump in puddles and get totally saturated. Pick her up, twirl her around and kiss her while the rain falls. Taste the water off her face and hold her close. When you get back home have a hot shower and then share a warm drink preferably in front of an open fire.
# 50
Organize a hot air ballooning trip as a special surprise. Most trips begin with a glass of champagne before you float over the countryside with your partner.
# 51
When your partner is sitting at a table or desk, come up behind him or her and give her a back, shoulder and head massage. Finish with a gentle kiss on the cheek.
# 52
Place an ad in the paper on a normal day saying something like: Dear Amanda, With you by my side, everyday feels like Valentines Day. Thank you for being you. Love, Graham
# 53
Buy a book that you and your partner are both interested in reading. Read one chapter each night in bed with each of you taking turns to read out loud. This can be a great alternative to television.
# 54
When your partner is having a shower or bath, take her towel and place it in the dryer to make it really warm and then wrap her up in it when she is done.
# 55
Photocopy your hand and fax a copy of it to your partner with a message saying, "Do ya wanna hold hands?"
# 56
Next time you order a pizza, ask to have it cut into a heart shape before it is delivered to your home.
# 57
Buy a box of chocolates and very carefully open one side of the plastic wrap so that you can gently slide the box out. Open the box and place a love note inside. Then slide the box back into its plastic wrap and reseal it.
# 58
Rent a tandem bike and go for a ride with your partner. At the end of your ride have a picnic in the park.
# 59
If you are away on a business trip, document a day in your life for your partner. For example: 'A Day In The Life Of Mark' 6am: Just woke up and thought of you - Wish you were laying next to me. Well, I better get ready for work. 7am: Am on the train. It's crowded; everyone looks like they are half dead. I miss ya heaps. 8.30am: Have just organized my day, it's going to be a busy one. 9.30am: Am in the middle of a really boring meeting. I am trying to concentrate on this months sales figures but I keep thinking of your beautiful eyes. ... 6.30pm: Thank goodness the day is over. I am counting the days until we’re together again. Send your letter to your partner. This is a wonderful way to tell your partner how often you think about her during the day and to share your life with her in a special way.
# 60
Speak to your partner's family and find out what her favorite book was when she was a little girl. Buy a copy of the book and read it to her in bed.
# 61
Write an email story with your partner. Start the ball rolling with an email that says something like: Chapter 1: This is the story of Pete and Kate who met at a friend's engagement party one summer afternoon. The email can then continue to develop the beginnings of a story which can be completely fictitious or a combination of fiction and reality. Finish your email by saying, "And now for Chapter 2, its over to you..."
# 62
Buy a kite and on a windy day find a park and fly the kite with your partner. If you can afford it, buy a large kite that you control with two hand lines. These kites are great fun.
# 63
When you and your partner are planning to go out for dinner, suggest that you have an 'Adventure Dinner'. Here's how it works Set the timer on your stopwatch to count down twenty minutes. Next, ask your partner to choose a number between 5 and 10. Lets say she chooses 7. Give your partner a coin and tell her that at every 7th intersection, she has to flip the coin. If it is heads you will turn left. If it is tails you will turn right. When your watch timer goes off you have to both keep a look out for the nearest place to eat. This is a fun way to get out and about and try new places to eat.
# 64
When you and your partner are going somewhere special, get your camera, buy a new roll of film and wait for her to come out of the house. When she appears, act like a professional photographer and go wild taking pictures of her with the flash. While you are taking photos, bombard her with questions as though she was a famous actress and you are trying to get a scoop for the magazine you represent. Not only is this fun but you will also get some great photos to look back on together.
# 65
When your partner is sick at home, take a day off to look after her. Rent some videos, make her some soup, wrap her up in a blanket and just be with her.
# 66
When you are having dinner one night, ask your partner about the things she has always wanted to do. Later on, write these things down so you don't forget them and over time try and help make them happen. For example she may say that one thing she has always wanted to do is swim with dolphins. Find out where she can do this and organize it for her as a special surprise.
# 67
Rent the video, "An Affair To Remember". Buy some popcorn, champagne and chocolate covered strawberries and have a special film night at home.
# 68
Go to the drive in but instead of sitting in the car, spread a picnic blanket on the ground. Light a candle and buy popcorn. Cuddle your partner and enjoy the film.
# 69
Create a personalized magazine cover for your partner. To do this, get hold of a good quality photo of her and a copy of a popular entertainment magazine. Take these two items to a print shop or graphic design agency. Ask them to scan your partner's photo and develop a magazine cover with the lead story being, "The 30 most beautiful women of 2003". When you get the cover, stick it on the front of a real magazine and ask your local shop owner whether you can place it in the magazine rack. Organize to meet your partner at the shop before going out. When she arrives, tell her that you are just looking for a magazine. Let her browse the rack and discover her magazine.
# 70
Fill the trunk of your car with helium balloons. Drive to a romantic spot in the country to go for a walk. The ideal spot is somewhere up high with a clear view of the surrounding countryside. Get out of the car and act as though you are about to set off for your walk. Make sure your partner is closer to the car than you and then throw her the keys and ask if she can get your jacket from the trunk while you tie your shoelace. When she opens the boot the balloons will be released. You can also place a sign saying, "I Love You" on the inside of the trunk so that it will be revealed when the trunk opens.
# 71
On a special occasion create a unique present for your partner by buying two white t-shirts and some fabric paint. Draw half a heart and the letters LO on one t-shirt and the half a heart and the letters VE on the other t-shirt. When you walk down the street holding each other close, the heart will be made whole and your message of love revealed. An example is shown below.
# 72
On a hot summers day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.
# 73
Share your food with your partner. When you go out for a meal, hold a forkful up to her mouth and say, "You've got to try this."
Sharing your food and even feeding each other is a great way to become closer as a couple.
# 74
Compliment your partner in public. If you are talking in a group and it is appropriate to the conversation say something like, "Kate makes the most incredible roast." Squeeze her hand while you are talking about her.
# 75
Arrange a special day off from work. Start with breakfast, go for a walk in the park, go shopping, have afternoon tea in a cozy cafe and finish off with a romantic dinner.
# 76
Buy a gift voucher for a facial at a local beauty clinic and place it in a card accompanied by the message, A special treat for someone special
# 77
Even if you are just going down the road to buy some milk, act as though you are returning home after a major adventure. Say something like, "Well it was touch and go there for a while with the snow and the wolves but I made it!" and then give your partner a huge bear hug.
# 78
Send your partner a thank-you note. For example: Dear Bec, Thanks for helping me move house. Having you there made a huge difference. I really appreciate your help and your love. Tim
# 79
If you have kids, organize for them to stay at their grandparents for the weekend. On Friday evening, announce that the weekend is yours and start planning how you are going to spend your special time together.
# 80
Give your partner a magic gift box. Every month, place a new small gift in the box for her to discover.
# 81
Research your partner's favorite hobby and identify a gift that is really useful for her. The more specialized the gift the more impact it will have. Talk to her friends and family and use the Net to find the information you need.
# 82
Go to a masquerade ball. Send an invitation to your partner telling her to meet you at a specific spot at the stroke of eight. Wear a mask and when you meet her, don't say a word. Just take her hand and lead her on to the dance floor.
# 83
On Thursday, ask your partner to pack a bag for the weekend. Tell her she'll need casual clothes and walking shoes but don't tell her what you have got planned. Pick her up after work on Friday and drive to a romantic bed and breakfast for a romantic weekend of relaxation.
# 84
When you are relaxing at home one night, take two large sheets of paper and some pencils or crayons. On each piece of paper, draw the outline of a large crystal ball sitting on a stand. Tell your partner to look into her crystal ball and draw what she sees five years in the future. Do the same thing yourself and then come together to share and discuss your drawings.
# 85
Create a loving nickname for your partner. This could be the name she was called by her family when she was a little girl or something that is special just for the two of you.
# 86
If you are musically inclined, write a love song for your partner. Call it something like "Natasha's Song". Produce a professional looking manuscript, print it out and get it framed. Record your song onto CD and take a photo of your partner and get a print shop to create a CD cover if you can’t create one on your computer. Place the framed manuscript and the CD in a box and give it to your partner as a special gift.
# 87
Pick your partner up for a date and blindfold her before driving to a special destination. Try to make the destination something really unexpected like a table set up at the top of a cliff or a dinner on a boat or old-fashioned ship. It needs to be something that will have an impact when she removes the blindfold.
# 88
Have a really big pillow fight. Set up for it by buying two pillows that are filled with feathers. Put holes in the pillows so the feathers will start to fly and then attack your partner when you feel the time is right.
# 89
Get out into the great outdoors. After a day of hiking, build an open fire. Sit by the fire with your partner, toast marshmallows and watch as the embers of the fire climb into the night sky.
# 90
If your partner uses a computer, take a photo of the two of you and get it scanned at a print shop (or scan it at home) and store it on disk as a .bmp file. Transfer the file onto your partner's computer and set the image as the computer's wallpaper. To do this on a Windows machine, select Start / Settings / Control Panel / Display. Choose the Background tab and click the Browse button to find your .bmp file.
# 91
If you are artistically inclined, do a life drawing course, practice until you are confident and then ask your partner to pose for you.
# 92
Take your partner to a carnival or festival. Try the following: (1) Food festival (2) Jazz festival (3) Wine festival (4) Music festival
# 93
Develop a video time capsule. Start with the two of you sitting together on a couch introducing the video. Say something like, "It is currently July 14th 2002. We have decided to make this video so that we can watch it together on our 25th wedding anniversary." Then have a section where you talk to the camera by yourself, telling the camera how you feel about your partner and why you love her. Get her to do the same thing. When you are done, place the video in a bank vault and on your 25th wedding anniversary you will be able to look back in time and reminisce about everything that you have shared.
# 94
If you are in a secluded spot near a beach or lake and the weather is warm, go for an impromptu skinny dip with your partner.
# 95
This one is great for long distance relationships. It takes a bit of organization but if you can pull it off, it is sure to be a surprise that your partner will never forget. Organize to catch up with her regularly over the internet using either a chat room or an Instant Messenger program. Then arrange a secret trip to meet her without telling her that you’re coming. When it comes time for your usual chat over the Net, arrange for a close friend back home to log on using your nickname while you position yourself outside her door. Phone your friend on your mobile and be speaking to him in real time. Tell him to type in the following sentence, “I really miss you honey, I wish I could be there and just reach out and knock on your door.” As soon as he has sent the message, knock on the door!
# 96
Buy your partner a gold fish in a bowl and give it to her with a card saying, “Of all the fish in the sea, you're the fish for me!”
# 97
Go for a drive either early in the morning or at dusk. Get a CD/tape that contains sounds of nature such as Sounds Of the Rainforest and play it as you hold your partner's hand and drive.
# 98
The day before your partner's birthday buy some helium balloons, streamers and flowers and hide them in a closet. When your partner has fallen asleep, string the streamers around the room and bring out the balloons and flowers. Place them around the bed so that your partner wakes up to a real birthday surprise.
# 99
Spend a leisurely afternoon with your partner in a large book shop such as Borders where you can browse the shelves, share a coffee and sit down to peruse your purchases.
# 100
If you can afford it, hire a sports car for a weekend. Pick up your partner and give her a long white cashmere scarf to wear with her sunglasses. Go for a drive along the coast with the top down.
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her that you are worried about her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear.
# 2
Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as "I Love You" When the lights go down, your message will be revealed!
# 3
On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven real red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the center of the bouquet. Attach a card that says: “I will love you until the last rose fades.”
# 4
Buy the domain name of your partner's name if it is available for example www.chabeeli.blogspot.com. Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture of a rose. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.
# 5
Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying “In this mirror you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world.”
# 6
Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following exert from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message "I love you" The palace was a labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve's feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted. The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper message such as "Dear Belinda, I love you honey"
# 7
Have flowers delivered to your partner's workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her office mates which will add to her enjoyment.
# 8
While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you're going to keep it as a special memento of your trip. Later, have a message such as "I Love Rebecca" engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.
# 9
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds. Play the kid’s game of looking for shapes in the cloud formations.
# 10
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write "I Love You" inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's work such as: For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones Level 20 Collins & Smith Solicitors New York Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day.
# 11
Memorize one of Shakespeare's love sonnets and recite it to your partner when you are in a romantic setting like a botanical garden. Don't just suddenly start reciting poetry as this will just sound corny. While you are cuddling your partner, ask in a joking manner, "So is now a good time to recite a love poem to you?" She will probably say yes, expecting you to come up with something of the "Roses are Red..." variety. Instead, look into her eyes, smile and recite the sonnet while you gently stroke her face. Try the sonnet below. If this is too long, just memorize the first four lines and the last two. Shakespeare Love Sonnet 18 Shall I compare thee to a summer's day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate. Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May, And summer's lease hath all too short a date. Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines, And often is his gold complexion dimmed, And every fair from fair sometime declines, By chance or nature's changing course untrimmed. But thy eternal summer shall not fade, Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest, Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st. So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see, So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.
# 12
If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her favorite things such as chocolates, herbal tea, cookies, a small teddy bear. Next, get a piece of paper and write "Michelle's Late Night Survival Pack" Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell your partner to open the box when things get really tough.
# 13
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from her childhood.
# 14
Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."
# 15
If your partner is starting a new job, buy a copy of "The Sound Of Music" sound track. Tape the song, "I Have Confidence" onto a tape and add your own message at the end of the song saying, "Good Luck honey, I have confidence in you." Give the tape to your partner to play on the way to work in the car.
# 16
Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great Masseur. For an appointment ring: (Your Phone Number)
# 17
When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead.
# 18
For this idea you will need a portable CD player. If you and your partner have a favorite song, get a copy of it on CD and take it with you when you go away for a romantic weekend. When you are in a romantic spot, ask your partner if she would like to dance. Place one earpiece in her ear and one in your own and enjoy your private dance floor. This technique is particularly effective if the romantic spot you have chosen is somewhere where people would not normally dance, for example, the top of the Empire State building at sunset or on top of a mountain during a camping trip.
# 19
If your partner has a pet that she adores, at Christmas, in addition to buying a gift for your partner, buy a small present for her pet.
# 20
Go for a walk on the beach. Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.
# 21
Invite your partner to go for a walk. Get a back pack and pack the following items: A picnic blanket, a selection of fruit in small containers eg. strawberries, grapes, watermelon and kiwi fruit. Some cheese and crackers. Some sandwiches. A small tin of caviar. A half bottle of champagne and two plastic champagne glasses. If your partner asks what's in the backpack, just say a jacket and some lunch. When you find a romantic spot, ask if she would like to stop for a bite to eat. Open your pack and remove the items one by one to set up your picnic. The last item you remove should be the glasses and champagne.
# 22
If you play a musical instrument, create a romantic environment in which to play for your partner. For example, let's say you play the saxophone. Contact your partner's roommate and arrange for her to make sure that your partner steps out onto the balcony of their apartment at exactly 9.30pm. Drive to her apartment and set up before hand. Place a large sparkler in the music holder of your sax and light it as your partner steps on to the balcony. Play something slow and romantic.
# 23
Use this idea if your partner is going to work and you are staying at home for some reason (Perhaps you are sick or are working from home). Say goodbye to her at the front door and then immediately send an email to her work address. The email should simply say, "Miss you already". The email will be in her in-box when she does her morning email check.
# 24
If your partner has long hair, take the time to brush it using long slow strokes. This is particularly effective after she has had a shower or when she is getting ready for bed.
# 25
On a special occasion like your partner's birthday, plan a treasure hunt for her. The fun begins when you suggest going for a walk on the beach. When you get to the beach, carry a small bag with you. The bag contains a bottle that you prepared earlier. Inside the bottle is a treasure map. To make the treasure map look authentic, burn the edges with a match. As you are walking, slip the bottle out of your bag and let it drop to the sand near the water's edge. You may have to pause and kiss your partner to do this unnoticed. Walk a little further up the beach then turn around and retrace your steps to 'discover' the bottle. On the map have a dotted line leading from the beach to a nearby cafe. At the cafe, your partner won't know what to look for so suggest that you just sit down and have a cup of coffee. When the waitress delivers the coffee, she suggests to your partner that she might find what she is looking for under the coaster. When your partner turns over the coaster she finds a key taped to the bottom. Obviously you will have to set this up before hand with the waitress. Most waitresses will be happy to help a romantic guy out with this type of thing. At the next stop on the map, your partner finds or is given a spade. Then at the last stop on the map your partner finds a large 'X' made up of two crossed sticks. She digs and discovers a locked box. The key unlocks the box to reveal her present.
# 26
Invite your partner on a date by sending her a plain brown envelope containing a tape. On the tape, record the Mission Impossible sound track and then record yourself saying, “Your mission if you choose to accept it is to make your way to Café Venoli, 123 Park Lane at 18.30 Eastern Standard Time. There you will rendezvous with a stunningly attractive man wearing a red carnation. The future of the free world is now in your hands. This tape will self destruct in five seconds.” Then record ten beeps from a stopwatch and record yourself saying, “Would you believe ten seconds…” Its corny but it usually gets a laugh!
# 27
Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.
# 28
Organize a professional photo shoot to obtain a portrait of the two of you as a couple. Frame the picture and put it somewhere prominent. Remember to make sure you give your partner plenty of notice so that she can get ready.
# 29
Write a note saying "I thought of you today, and it made me smile." Leave the note somewhere where your partner is sure to find it.
# 30
For Valentines Day, buy your partner a charm bracelet with at least 14 charms. Remove all the charms and let your partner 'find' one charm each day for the first fourteen days of February. On Valentines Day give her the bracelet and any remaining charms.
# 31
When you and your partner are in a shopping center or airport, stop at one of those booths that allow you to take an instant photo and print them out as stickers. Choose a romantic background and kiss your partner while the photo is being taken.
# 32
If your partner has voice mail at work or on her mobile, leave a message saying "Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you." She will appreciate this anytime but especially when she is going through a rough period.
# 33
Organize a mystery trip for you and your partner. Some travel agents will organize mystery packages where the destination of the trip is kept secret until you are actually on the plane or arrive at the destination.
# 34
Buy some rose petals and place them behind the sun visor on the passenger side of your car. Take a post it note and write, "I Love You" on it and stick it to the back of the sun visor. As you are driving to a romantic destination, look at your partner and tell her she has a mark on her cheek. She will pull down the sun visor to use the mirror and be showered in rose petals and see your note.
# 35
If your partner is going on a trip, pack a small present into the corner of her suitcase that she will find when she is away.
# 36
When you and your partner are having an anniversary, buy two champagne glasses and get them engraved with your names and the date, for example:
Mal and Kate 7 May 2002
Go to the restaurant where you have made your reservations and request that when you and your partner arrive that your champagne be served in your special glasses. This will be a great surprise for your partner and a wonderful keepsake for you both.
# 37
On a special occasion such as your partner's birthday, buy twenty-four red roses. Arrange to meet her at a specific spot in a shopping mall before going out for dinner. Get to the shopping mall early and position yourself around the corner from your meeting spot. Ask a guy who is walking by whether he would mind helping you out. Give him a rose, point out your partner and ask him to walk up to her and say, "Happy Birthday Meagan" and give her the rose and then walk away. Repeat this with eleven other guys. Choose guys who are not too good looking and choose guys of different ages. A nice touch is to have the last rose delivered by a small child who could even by accompanied by his parents. After the first twelve flowers have been delivered, approach your partner with the twelve remaining roses.
# 38
Always listen for things that your partner reminisces about and jot them down somewhere. For example, perhaps she talks about the ice cream that she had from a particular shop when she was a little girl. When a special occasion comes along, check your list of things that your partner talks about and try to recreate one of them, for example, visit the shop and buy a tub of ice cream making sure that the name of the shop is on the container.
# 39
Create a love montage by collecting some photographs of you and your partner, some ticket stubs of places you have visited and any other small odds and ends that have special meaning to you both. Take these items and get them professionally framed in a three dimensional montage. Alternatively, buy a frame and create a simple montage yourself.
# 40
Buy an ornately carved wooden box which is lined with green or red felt. Find an old fashioned key and place it in the box. Next, get a small gold plaque and have it engraved with the words
The Key To My Heart
Fix the plaque to the inside of the top of the box so that it can be read when the box is opened.
# 41
Buy a tree with your partner and plant it in a special spot. Each year on your anniversary, have a glass of champagne next to your tree and talk about how your love and the tree have grown.
# 42
If you shower first in the morning. Steam up the bathroom and write a message such as "Pete Loves Kathy" on the mirror for your partner to read when she uses the bathroom. This also works on car windows when it's cold.
# 43
As a special gift, name a Star after your partner. A number of astronomical agencies allow individuals to name stars and you receive formal documentation identifying the star that you have named. See the following website for details: http://www.smssher.blogspot.com
# 44
Find a comic strip that relates to something that you and your partner have shared together, for example perhaps you both work in the same office and you find a Dilbert cartoon that relates to the politics at your workplace. Enlarge the cartoon using a photocopier and use white-out to cover the cartoon text. Type up your own text that relates to you and your partner and paste it in the appropriate places and then photocopy the cartoon again so that it looks like your text was the actual text of the cartoon. For an added touch, get your customized cartoon laminated before giving it to your partner.
# 45
When you and your partner are enjoying a restful time away, organize to wake up early one morning and go to a scenic spot to watch the sun rise. This may seem difficult but it is something which is definitely worth doing at least once. Seeing a new day being born is something really special to share with your partner.
# 46
When you have access to a spa, create a romantic atmosphere by placing some candles around the tub and some rose petals floating on the surface of the water. As your partner enjoys the water, serve champagne and chocolate covered strawberries before joining her.
# 47
Create some love coupons that your partner can exchange for romantic favors. For example you could have a coupon that reads This coupon entitles the bearer to: One Foot Massage. Use by 07/08/2045 Use a date many years in the future if you want to suggest that you and your partner will always be together. Get 50 love coupons at this site: http://www.vdayspl.blogspot.com
# 48
On a warm summers night, organize a backyard picnic. Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.
# 49
Next time it is raining really heavily, go for a walk with your partner. Forget the umbrellas and the raincoats. Run through the streets together, jump in puddles and get totally saturated. Pick her up, twirl her around and kiss her while the rain falls. Taste the water off her face and hold her close. When you get back home have a hot shower and then share a warm drink preferably in front of an open fire.
# 50
Organize a hot air ballooning trip as a special surprise. Most trips begin with a glass of champagne before you float over the countryside with your partner.
# 51
When your partner is sitting at a table or desk, come up behind him or her and give her a back, shoulder and head massage. Finish with a gentle kiss on the cheek.
# 52
Place an ad in the paper on a normal day saying something like: Dear Amanda, With you by my side, everyday feels like Valentines Day. Thank you for being you. Love, Graham
# 53
Buy a book that you and your partner are both interested in reading. Read one chapter each night in bed with each of you taking turns to read out loud. This can be a great alternative to television.
# 54
When your partner is having a shower or bath, take her towel and place it in the dryer to make it really warm and then wrap her up in it when she is done.
# 55
Photocopy your hand and fax a copy of it to your partner with a message saying, "Do ya wanna hold hands?"
# 56
Next time you order a pizza, ask to have it cut into a heart shape before it is delivered to your home.
# 57
Buy a box of chocolates and very carefully open one side of the plastic wrap so that you can gently slide the box out. Open the box and place a love note inside. Then slide the box back into its plastic wrap and reseal it.
# 58
Rent a tandem bike and go for a ride with your partner. At the end of your ride have a picnic in the park.
# 59
If you are away on a business trip, document a day in your life for your partner. For example: 'A Day In The Life Of Mark' 6am: Just woke up and thought of you - Wish you were laying next to me. Well, I better get ready for work. 7am: Am on the train. It's crowded; everyone looks like they are half dead. I miss ya heaps. 8.30am: Have just organized my day, it's going to be a busy one. 9.30am: Am in the middle of a really boring meeting. I am trying to concentrate on this months sales figures but I keep thinking of your beautiful eyes. ... 6.30pm: Thank goodness the day is over. I am counting the days until we’re together again. Send your letter to your partner. This is a wonderful way to tell your partner how often you think about her during the day and to share your life with her in a special way.
# 60
Speak to your partner's family and find out what her favorite book was when she was a little girl. Buy a copy of the book and read it to her in bed.
# 61
Write an email story with your partner. Start the ball rolling with an email that says something like: Chapter 1: This is the story of Pete and Kate who met at a friend's engagement party one summer afternoon. The email can then continue to develop the beginnings of a story which can be completely fictitious or a combination of fiction and reality. Finish your email by saying, "And now for Chapter 2, its over to you..."
# 62
Buy a kite and on a windy day find a park and fly the kite with your partner. If you can afford it, buy a large kite that you control with two hand lines. These kites are great fun.
# 63
When you and your partner are planning to go out for dinner, suggest that you have an 'Adventure Dinner'. Here's how it works Set the timer on your stopwatch to count down twenty minutes. Next, ask your partner to choose a number between 5 and 10. Lets say she chooses 7. Give your partner a coin and tell her that at every 7th intersection, she has to flip the coin. If it is heads you will turn left. If it is tails you will turn right. When your watch timer goes off you have to both keep a look out for the nearest place to eat. This is a fun way to get out and about and try new places to eat.
# 64
When you and your partner are going somewhere special, get your camera, buy a new roll of film and wait for her to come out of the house. When she appears, act like a professional photographer and go wild taking pictures of her with the flash. While you are taking photos, bombard her with questions as though she was a famous actress and you are trying to get a scoop for the magazine you represent. Not only is this fun but you will also get some great photos to look back on together.
# 65
When your partner is sick at home, take a day off to look after her. Rent some videos, make her some soup, wrap her up in a blanket and just be with her.
# 66
When you are having dinner one night, ask your partner about the things she has always wanted to do. Later on, write these things down so you don't forget them and over time try and help make them happen. For example she may say that one thing she has always wanted to do is swim with dolphins. Find out where she can do this and organize it for her as a special surprise.
# 67
Rent the video, "An Affair To Remember". Buy some popcorn, champagne and chocolate covered strawberries and have a special film night at home.
# 68
Go to the drive in but instead of sitting in the car, spread a picnic blanket on the ground. Light a candle and buy popcorn. Cuddle your partner and enjoy the film.
# 69
Create a personalized magazine cover for your partner. To do this, get hold of a good quality photo of her and a copy of a popular entertainment magazine. Take these two items to a print shop or graphic design agency. Ask them to scan your partner's photo and develop a magazine cover with the lead story being, "The 30 most beautiful women of 2003". When you get the cover, stick it on the front of a real magazine and ask your local shop owner whether you can place it in the magazine rack. Organize to meet your partner at the shop before going out. When she arrives, tell her that you are just looking for a magazine. Let her browse the rack and discover her magazine.
# 70
Fill the trunk of your car with helium balloons. Drive to a romantic spot in the country to go for a walk. The ideal spot is somewhere up high with a clear view of the surrounding countryside. Get out of the car and act as though you are about to set off for your walk. Make sure your partner is closer to the car than you and then throw her the keys and ask if she can get your jacket from the trunk while you tie your shoelace. When she opens the boot the balloons will be released. You can also place a sign saying, "I Love You" on the inside of the trunk so that it will be revealed when the trunk opens.
# 71
On a special occasion create a unique present for your partner by buying two white t-shirts and some fabric paint. Draw half a heart and the letters LO on one t-shirt and the half a heart and the letters VE on the other t-shirt. When you walk down the street holding each other close, the heart will be made whole and your message of love revealed. An example is shown below.
# 72
On a hot summers day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.
# 73
Share your food with your partner. When you go out for a meal, hold a forkful up to her mouth and say, "You've got to try this."
Sharing your food and even feeding each other is a great way to become closer as a couple.
# 74
Compliment your partner in public. If you are talking in a group and it is appropriate to the conversation say something like, "Kate makes the most incredible roast." Squeeze her hand while you are talking about her.
# 75
Arrange a special day off from work. Start with breakfast, go for a walk in the park, go shopping, have afternoon tea in a cozy cafe and finish off with a romantic dinner.
# 76
Buy a gift voucher for a facial at a local beauty clinic and place it in a card accompanied by the message, A special treat for someone special
# 77
Even if you are just going down the road to buy some milk, act as though you are returning home after a major adventure. Say something like, "Well it was touch and go there for a while with the snow and the wolves but I made it!" and then give your partner a huge bear hug.
# 78
Send your partner a thank-you note. For example: Dear Bec, Thanks for helping me move house. Having you there made a huge difference. I really appreciate your help and your love. Tim
# 79
If you have kids, organize for them to stay at their grandparents for the weekend. On Friday evening, announce that the weekend is yours and start planning how you are going to spend your special time together.
# 80
Give your partner a magic gift box. Every month, place a new small gift in the box for her to discover.
# 81
Research your partner's favorite hobby and identify a gift that is really useful for her. The more specialized the gift the more impact it will have. Talk to her friends and family and use the Net to find the information you need.
# 82
Go to a masquerade ball. Send an invitation to your partner telling her to meet you at a specific spot at the stroke of eight. Wear a mask and when you meet her, don't say a word. Just take her hand and lead her on to the dance floor.
# 83
On Thursday, ask your partner to pack a bag for the weekend. Tell her she'll need casual clothes and walking shoes but don't tell her what you have got planned. Pick her up after work on Friday and drive to a romantic bed and breakfast for a romantic weekend of relaxation.
# 84
When you are relaxing at home one night, take two large sheets of paper and some pencils or crayons. On each piece of paper, draw the outline of a large crystal ball sitting on a stand. Tell your partner to look into her crystal ball and draw what she sees five years in the future. Do the same thing yourself and then come together to share and discuss your drawings.
# 85
Create a loving nickname for your partner. This could be the name she was called by her family when she was a little girl or something that is special just for the two of you.
# 86
If you are musically inclined, write a love song for your partner. Call it something like "Natasha's Song". Produce a professional looking manuscript, print it out and get it framed. Record your song onto CD and take a photo of your partner and get a print shop to create a CD cover if you can’t create one on your computer. Place the framed manuscript and the CD in a box and give it to your partner as a special gift.
# 87
Pick your partner up for a date and blindfold her before driving to a special destination. Try to make the destination something really unexpected like a table set up at the top of a cliff or a dinner on a boat or old-fashioned ship. It needs to be something that will have an impact when she removes the blindfold.
# 88
Have a really big pillow fight. Set up for it by buying two pillows that are filled with feathers. Put holes in the pillows so the feathers will start to fly and then attack your partner when you feel the time is right.
# 89
Get out into the great outdoors. After a day of hiking, build an open fire. Sit by the fire with your partner, toast marshmallows and watch as the embers of the fire climb into the night sky.
# 90
If your partner uses a computer, take a photo of the two of you and get it scanned at a print shop (or scan it at home) and store it on disk as a .bmp file. Transfer the file onto your partner's computer and set the image as the computer's wallpaper. To do this on a Windows machine, select Start / Settings / Control Panel / Display. Choose the Background tab and click the Browse button to find your .bmp file.
# 91
If you are artistically inclined, do a life drawing course, practice until you are confident and then ask your partner to pose for you.
# 92
Take your partner to a carnival or festival. Try the following: (1) Food festival (2) Jazz festival (3) Wine festival (4) Music festival
# 93
Develop a video time capsule. Start with the two of you sitting together on a couch introducing the video. Say something like, "It is currently July 14th 2002. We have decided to make this video so that we can watch it together on our 25th wedding anniversary." Then have a section where you talk to the camera by yourself, telling the camera how you feel about your partner and why you love her. Get her to do the same thing. When you are done, place the video in a bank vault and on your 25th wedding anniversary you will be able to look back in time and reminisce about everything that you have shared.
# 94
If you are in a secluded spot near a beach or lake and the weather is warm, go for an impromptu skinny dip with your partner.
# 95
This one is great for long distance relationships. It takes a bit of organization but if you can pull it off, it is sure to be a surprise that your partner will never forget. Organize to catch up with her regularly over the internet using either a chat room or an Instant Messenger program. Then arrange a secret trip to meet her without telling her that you’re coming. When it comes time for your usual chat over the Net, arrange for a close friend back home to log on using your nickname while you position yourself outside her door. Phone your friend on your mobile and be speaking to him in real time. Tell him to type in the following sentence, “I really miss you honey, I wish I could be there and just reach out and knock on your door.” As soon as he has sent the message, knock on the door!
# 96
Buy your partner a gold fish in a bowl and give it to her with a card saying, “Of all the fish in the sea, you're the fish for me!”
# 97
Go for a drive either early in the morning or at dusk. Get a CD/tape that contains sounds of nature such as Sounds Of the Rainforest and play it as you hold your partner's hand and drive.
# 98
The day before your partner's birthday buy some helium balloons, streamers and flowers and hide them in a closet. When your partner has fallen asleep, string the streamers around the room and bring out the balloons and flowers. Place them around the bed so that your partner wakes up to a real birthday surprise.
# 99
Spend a leisurely afternoon with your partner in a large book shop such as Borders where you can browse the shelves, share a coffee and sit down to peruse your purchases.
# 100
If you can afford it, hire a sports car for a weekend. Pick up your partner and give her a long white cashmere scarf to wear with her sunglasses. Go for a drive along the coast with the top down.
Monday, February 2, 2009
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Monday, January 5, 2009
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Tuesday, November 25, 2008
HOW TO GET A GIRL
So, You like to get a girl, who is your class mate, colleague, girl at next door, a party chick or some one? You are a shy guy to start with girls? Keep this in your mind always "Girls aren't aliens to fear about". Kick your foolish shyness and fear at first.
Be a Man:Do not degrade yourself with your inferior things. Look at the couples you see at beach, park & every where else.. If he can get a girl then why not you?
First Meet/Date/Conversation?Buddy, You need to make her get relaxed. So, Do not stand in front of her like an escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. First relax yourself and understand the environment then start, Just say good day wishes, smile and move forward the conversation with interesting topics. There is a magic lie which always attracts a girl. Tell her that "You looks really nice. This dress perfectly suits you" end this line with a nice smile. This is your first trap.
What is your personality?Do you able to describe about yourself with couple of lines? Do not try to makeup some fake characters into your personality. Just "Be Yourself"
Are you a Jerk or Nice guy?Most of the girls feel nice guys are such boring personalities. Don't be a 100% funny guy always. It will create a joker impression about you instead of attractiveness.
Your conversations with a girl:when a girl talk about something she like, an incident, a sad moment, her last summer trip, her pets or anything else, You need to follow "Shut Up and Listen" rule. Stop commenting, Stop giving suggestions, Stop giving advices, Stop arguments when she talk. Just shut up your bad mouth and listen what she says. She don't need a world's greatest idea from you when she talk something emotional. All she need is a caring person who respects what she is saying.
Be REAL:Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl's heart melt.
Be Talkative:Girls like such an interesting guys who talk funny, naughty (sometimes), caring & polite. Just be social.
Know more about her:You have to know about her most happiest/sad moments. Close friends, Family, Co-Workers, Her favorite food, her hobbies. Do not ask all of these to her like a survey guy. Just know it in different moments.
Your Thoughts:If she say "Eminem is the only one who can rap very well. all others are pure crap!" Don't say "yes yes.. emimen is BEST.. I like him". Just say what you think really in polite way, This would be better, "Yes Eminem is nice.. But 50cent & Dr.Dre too perform nice, You must listen <50-c>look how great all are they.. these three guys rap nice.".
How to be an interested guy?If she like something, then ask about her thoughts & comments about it. Let her to talk much about her favorite things. Do not let it to be a questioner session.
Learn to play at least a single musical instrument,Learn to dance,Have some interesting hobbies like boat riding, rock climbing,
Do not Hurt or Kid her friends:Do not try lame jokes to kid her friends. As you are a new person to her, You need to be friendly to all of her friends too.
TRUST Yourself
First of all trust yourself, You can do it even millions of successful guys do. You lose nothing if she denies you. Just have a try learn the lesson "How to attract".
Be a Man:Do not degrade yourself with your inferior things. Look at the couples you see at beach, park & every where else.. If he can get a girl then why not you?
First Meet/Date/Conversation?Buddy, You need to make her get relaxed. So, Do not stand in front of her like an escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. First relax yourself and understand the environment then start, Just say good day wishes, smile and move forward the conversation with interesting topics. There is a magic lie which always attracts a girl. Tell her that "You looks really nice. This dress perfectly suits you" end this line with a nice smile. This is your first trap.
What is your personality?Do you able to describe about yourself with couple of lines? Do not try to makeup some fake characters into your personality. Just "Be Yourself"
Are you a Jerk or Nice guy?Most of the girls feel nice guys are such boring personalities. Don't be a 100% funny guy always. It will create a joker impression about you instead of attractiveness.
Your conversations with a girl:when a girl talk about something she like, an incident, a sad moment, her last summer trip, her pets or anything else, You need to follow "Shut Up and Listen" rule. Stop commenting, Stop giving suggestions, Stop giving advices, Stop arguments when she talk. Just shut up your bad mouth and listen what she says. She don't need a world's greatest idea from you when she talk something emotional. All she need is a caring person who respects what she is saying.
Be REAL:Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl's heart melt.
Be Talkative:Girls like such an interesting guys who talk funny, naughty (sometimes), caring & polite. Just be social.
Know more about her:You have to know about her most happiest/sad moments. Close friends, Family, Co-Workers, Her favorite food, her hobbies. Do not ask all of these to her like a survey guy. Just know it in different moments.
Your Thoughts:If she say "Eminem is the only one who can rap very well. all others are pure crap!" Don't say "yes yes.. emimen is BEST.. I like him". Just say what you think really in polite way, This would be better, "Yes Eminem is nice.. But 50cent & Dr.Dre too perform nice, You must listen <50-c>
How to be an interested guy?If she like something, then ask about her thoughts & comments about it. Let her to talk much about her favorite things. Do not let it to be a questioner session.
Learn to play at least a single musical instrument,Learn to dance,Have some interesting hobbies like boat riding, rock climbing,
Do not Hurt or Kid her friends:Do not try lame jokes to kid her friends. As you are a new person to her, You need to be friendly to all of her friends too.
TRUST Yourself
First of all trust yourself, You can do it even millions of successful guys do. You lose nothing if she denies you. Just have a try learn the lesson "How to attract".
Friday, November 14, 2008
HOW TO INSTANTLY CHAT UP ANY WOMAN YOU WANT
Proven tested methods socially competent men don’t want you to know.
Dating or courtship is the process of choosing and attracting a mate for companionship or marriage. You will learn: phrases for opening conversations with girls, good questions to ask girls to keep conversation going and more...However men find problems with going up to girls and starting conversations. The soulution is to prepare in advance, learn essentials...
Introducing Your Essential Success Manual :
Men's Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going?
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Have you ever wondered why some men find it easy to talk to women and some don’t? What a very few men understand is to effectively communicate with a woman, he must be able to relate to her needs and desires on various levels.
There are several ways in which a man can improve his ability to relate to a woman while talking to her. Men need to be able to relate to this sensitive and caring side of a woman when talking to her.
So what is proper way to initiate conversation and which questions keep conversations interesting?
Proven Methods to Approach and Chat Up Women
In my continuous quest for helping men to attract women I’m about to reveal you proven methods to approach and chat up women. The key for success with women is to keep persisting on improving your social skills and making yourself interesting and attractive person to women.
Just like your professional life time learned skills learning and adopting the behavior that make you attractive to women is an ongoing process, the one never learned in school.
I can not emphasize enough how important it is to make easy steps and keep going UNTIL you reach your ULIMATE GOAL, become attractive to women….
The first and most important step is to learn mastery of talking to women. Coming up with interesting conversation topics, leading conversation from casual to specific tailored themes in an art I’m about to tech you right now.Keep your eyes on your ultimate goal, and continue leaning and improving your conversation with women skills no matter how it goes in the beginning.
One of the most important aspects of relating to a woman is to learn how she thinks and feels. Even though all women are unique, there are some general ways in which they are the same. If a man can understand those underlying common denominators among women, he will be able to relate to and talk to them easier.
Give A Woman Her Share Of The Talk
A very important thing a man can do for women in conversation is to ENCOURAGE HER TO EXPRESS HER IDEAS and views on things. Often men tend to dominate a conversation with a woman by expressing his side of a story and not let the woman who he is talking to express her point of view.
So generally, it is important to give a woman her share of the talk, and be a good listener also.
Now in a blueprint book “Men's Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going?” I will teach you:
FIRST thing first, How to open conversation with a woman?
If you haven't got a lot of experience in the dating game and if you're not sure whether a girl likes you, the key is this - ASSUME she likes you and act accordingly.
Basically, if you assume she likes you, and then your attitude and body language will be far more attractive than if you are constantly thinking "does she like me?" all the time.
What you need to know about ways to lead conversation
What is a good way to start a conversation with a girl?
How to to start a conversation with a girl online?
How to keep someone interested in your conversations?
What if conversation dries up quickly and you go into dreadful uncomfortable silence? Learn new ways to keep conversation going.
Best advice I can give you is to be sociable and talkative with everyone. It will depend on how confident you are as a person, but if you can talk to everyone, then you will be seen as a guy of value and it won't be surprising if a girl likes you. Also, when being talkative and sociable, remember to display a sense of fun, lightheartedness and humor about yourself.
People will then want to be around you and you will give off a positive vibe. Avoid being really quiet and complaining all the time like many people do. I mean, do you honestly like being round someone who is negative?
Don't over-analyze what to say when you pass her by, just say 'hey, how's it going' but make sure you are in an upbeat fun sort of mood, and you will convey your positive energy to her.
Believe me, as long as you keep improving on taught instructions in a “power words” eBook you will eventually master art of leading conversation with women and keeping them attracted to you.
How Do You Keep Conversation Going On A Date?
My solution has been to take it one step at a time. Once you try something, and "get away with it" you realize that in the end it was actually quite easy. That's when your confidence starts to grow, and you start to get the hang of approaching women.
Have you had enough experience talking to girls even those who are not romantic partners, to make any difference, to attract her to you? Sitting around and thinking about what might have been, what you would have said, what she'd say back, etc. is draining. It might feel good, but it doesn't get any work done.
So you need to LEARN:
How to approach and start initial conversation with a woman?
How to make conversations interesting with a girlfriend?
How to bring interesting topics on conversations?
What is the best ways to talk to a girl to keep a conversation interesting?
Believe me, as long as you keep improving on taught instructions in a “power words” eBook you will eventually master art of leading conversation with women and keeping them attracted to you.
So what do successful men actually do to attract women?
The best way to learn fast it to refer to the dating women blueprint that will give you a general outline what should be done first …
The next step you need to learn is UNDERSTANDING THE WAY FEMALE ATTRACTION WORKS. One of the essential skills is to understand female’s perspective of attraction and dating. What makes a man attractive to a woman?
Looks?
Personal charm?
Wealth and money?
Similar interests and common beliefs?
Then you just tailor your approach toward picking conversation topics in a way that triggers attraction towards you as a dating object. Creating attraction and triggering that necessary spark that makes you interesting to woman is related to a special combination of humor, flirting, personal charm and many subliminal and subconscious messages transferred in a proper spontaneous way.
To make sure you are aware of this stage in an attraction game I’ve devoted chapter in “power words” ebook aimed to guide you in creating and leading a conversation with a prospective woman. Here is what you will learn:
Conversation And Signs Of Attraction
How to initiate and keep a conversation with a girl?
What are fun questions to ask to keep a conversation going?
How do you keep a conversation going with the person you like?
Learn the most common used words in conversations.
What question do girls like to be asked so that they start conversations?
And more....
So guys if you want to succeed with women start upon building necessary skill block and most importantly work on it.
If you DON’T TAKE ACTION UPON WHAT YOU’VE ABOUT TO LEARN no dating knowledge will help by itself!YES, I’m going to make some encouragement remarks along the road so you won’t be on you own.
So let’s get started!
Technique 1: Stop Waiting For the Perfect Moment to Approach Women
If you're waiting for the perfect moment or perfect mood to approach someone, actually you might miss many excellent opportunities if you hesitate and at least don’t banter now and then.
So many gurus are teaching “the art of “luring – tricking - dragging” women into bed. I’m definitely not going to. What I’m advocating is making a good human and personal contact with a woman that will eventually progress into love and hopefully into relationship.
Instead of thinking what you will loose (negatively) think of what you can gain (positively). Try to convince a woman as well as yourself that your friendship is an ideal foundation / platform in which to launch your relationship from.
Yes I’m aware that you’ll hear over and over again that pickup lines work! Actually they DON’T! Would you go with a woman just because she regurgitated some of overused, lame sentence?
What always had worked, and is still working is being natural with women and treating them as interesting conversation companions.
When You See A Pretty Girl What Do You Say To Start Conversation?
Girls are generally attracted to fun, confident, positive, upbeat people. Develop a natural inner confidence that exudes outward to the rest of the world. This will help you especially in attracting women. What you need is to be confident, talkative and flirty around women. Ask her open-ended questions and let her tell you about herself.
Then she will "pick up" on your interest towards her without you actually saying it. That's how the whole game of seduction works, and if you break that delicate bubble by verbalizing your interest in her, you're dead.
You, need to understand some basic principles of male - female attraction. The "nice guy" is the shy, unconfident, approval seeking, sexually inhibited man who women only ever like as a friend and NEVER a lover.
SO START GETTING ACQUAINTACES WITH WOMEN NOW!
Technique 2: How to chat up women and get them attracted to you?
The skill to attract, chat up and get laid is a natural gift, for some men, for the other majority it is a skill that should be learned. Women crave relationships and sex with men just as men do.
What’s the difference? It’s just a way women emotionally related to men and the way they express desires.
Don't make approach harder than it has to be. Keep it simple. Next time you see a woman, introduce yourself. Just say "Hi, I've seen you before but don't know your name.... my name is...."
See how she reacts. Then say, "what do you do?". That will open the door for conversation. If it goes well, ask if you can have her extension at work. That is a perfect alternative to lunch, since you may not know so soon if she is interested. You could just say "hey, I'm going on a cappuccino break...have you had a break yet?"
That way, it is not a "date" since it is not lunch and cappuccino is only a dollar or two. If she says no to a "break", then you pretty much have your answer as to what she might say to a "date".
If things go well via office phone, then ask if she'd like to take a break for cappuccino or coffee on your break.
If she says no, then of course don't ask for a date. It's not the end of the world if she says no.
Continue to be polite, but do move on to someone else who returns your feelings of interest. Also, don't wait to invite her for coffee. If you do, someone else may beat you to it.
It’s all about how you communicate with women that really turn them ON, and fire up their natural desire for a masculine presence. As easy at it seems to be it usually takes a lot of effort on a male side to get women attracted to you.
Your chances to win a women’s heart will skyrocket if you follow these STEPS...
How To Keep Conversations Flowing With Interesting Subjects?
Stop waiting for the perfect sentence, and perfect conversation line. Just be natural as if you were talking to some of your female colleagues.
Finding girls is one of the most difficult things in a man's life. but at the same time can be one of the easiest. What I mean is usually when I was concentrating on meeting women, or trying to meet girls or find a date, it has never been easy, and usually never worked out well.
But every time, which is most often, I have sat back and just had a good time doing whatever else I was doing and was myself, is when it happened.
Topics You Could Talk About When Trying To Start A Conversation
See as males we have this strange thing that happens when we meet attractive women, or go single for long periods of time.
Remember that if you are interested in someone, it doesn't have to start with something as heavy as a date. Start by simply getting to know the person first, to determine if you like her enough to ask for a date.
Most women do not like a man to get quick seduced. What they are actually looking for is connection with a person who knows what he wants out of his life and who is pursuing women.
Technique 3:How To Start A Conversation And Keep It Flowing?
Most of the time when approaching women you don’t need to know “what to say” in advance, it will come to you just when you start by “Hi, what’s up?” So here is what you need to learn about starting and opening conversation:
Learn Easy Topics Of Conversation When Getting To Know Someone
What Are Appropriate Topics When Starting A Conversation?
What Are Some Interesting Topics Of Conversation To Raise With A Woman?
What Is The Best Way To Start A Good Conversation Goin With A Girl
What Are The Best Questions To Ask To Keep A Converstaion Interesting?
Women may act differently according to social atmosphere. To me that's part of the fun dating, and even making friends with girls, is finding out what they are really like, and learning more about them in different situations and different moods.
Most people love talking about their partners so if you can coach it out of them during the conversation then it will make your job easier in regards to making yourself happy in relationship.
You're trying to meet someone who lights your fire too. If you set a goal and attain it not only will you impress women more often, but you might even amaze yourself, and raise that self esteem/confidence level.
Don't mold and mend your body or personality for girls or anyone else EVER. Do not think about wanting to be more social but make it happen today. Do it only for yourself. You would much rather be happy with yourself and alone than unhappy with who you are. It's easier to act your way into thinking right than to think your way into acting.
What Topics Are Great To Start A Conversation With Women?
Nothing attracts women like self confidence. Seemingly impossible for some men who get stuck and powerless when they get in encounter. I now it can be worked out too.
Showing self confidence is a strong power sign because it’s always been attribute of natural attraction. Why do you think some women fall for jerks?
You should be totally happy with your life before you start meeting / dating / trying to add women into your life.
Another thing was being shy about your looks. That's something you could change. Perhaps you could try working out, dieting, changing eating habits, but not with the intention of getting girls.
If you were to do that, I would hope you do it to help your own self esteem, and make you feel better about yourself. There is almost nothing women love more than a man with confidence, goals, and dreams. If you set a goal and attain it not only will you impress women more often, but you might even amaze yourself, and raise that self esteem - confidence level!
Do it only for yourself. You would rather be happy with Yourself and alone than unhappy with who You are.
Technique 4: What Questions To Ask A Girl To Get A Conversation Going?
The biggest mistake men do is ignoring the reality. When approaching a girl, how do you know if she is isn't already married or has a boyfriend?
Does she even want company of a guy at the moment?
When you ask a girl for your number, sure; she certainly expects you to call sometime soon! You never know, she may be more interested when you probably think. It's it times to see these things.
1. Call her! Once you get her number, she expects you to!2. Don't try to kiss her on the first date.3. Don't try to kiss her on the second date (she may not know for sure if she wants that yet).4. Keep going on dates until you know FOR SURE she wants you to kiss her.
Kissing on the first date isn't a good idea. I don't encourage it unless the moment is absolutely perfect and the both of you can feel that. I've been kissed on the first date twice.
The first time, It wasn't nice and I was completely turned off. I wished that I would have gotten the chance to know her better. Afterwards, feelings were much deeper, and I had felt more passion in that moment ever before.
These skills are critical to developing self-confidence in the presence of a girl you are attracted to, as well as for social acceptance.One of the biggest challenges is getting to notice the signals from the opposite sex.
Introducing yourself…
Don’t expect success with women just from the first attempt. Nothing happens from the first tryout. One of the first tricks to keeping a conversation going is to keep your intellectual mind-set focused on the current conversation.
I believe that the more time that you spend with woman the more closer a bond that you will form. This will only be possible if you do this on a one on one basis.
Then when you do get an opportunity make the most of it and show her a good time. Don't try anything during those dates just keep it casual and light.
So often I take notice of troubles associated to opening a conversation like this: "I've been preparing to talk to a girl, but at the moment I am about to do it I break out in a cold sweat and give up."
Ask A Woman Casual Questions To Get The Conversation Started
What you need is practice and you will learn from your experience. The more frequently you see each other, the more of a bond and connection that you will form. If you can make her laugh that would be even better. In summary there isn't necessarily anything particular that you can say or do that will sweep her off her feet.
If she chooses you then it would have been a culmination of things that she will have found attractive about you. Be yourself and try to put your best foot forward. Show her how much you like her by being attentive to her needs. I do not mean doing things for her continuously but also give her emotional support.
Listen carefully to what she is saying because more often or not valuable clues can be found on how to impress her. Women like guys with passion and a plan. If you have something that you are particularly passionate about or like tell her. Otherwise just relax and enjoy her company.
Don't try and figure it all out in your head before hand, take the time to learn through experience. It's easiest if you remove the roadblocks you are experiencing one by one.
Technique 5: Ways To Introduce Yourself To Someone You Like Without Looking Desperate
Move yourself to environments where people like to converse. The parties and bars are places where women are relaxed and usually looking for fun or social partners.
The most effective way to get someone interested in you is to show an interest in him or her. If you adopt an attitude that is accepting and open, and show that you are concerned in the other person, you will look like you are interested in conversation with them.
Never feel bad about having a go at chatting to a girl because you are basically doing what every other guy and girl is doing on the planet. If she is not the right girl for you then so be it. There are plenty of other girls out there for you to meet.
Despite the fact that girls has been very friendly to you it would be extremely difficult to determine whether the girl drew the heart to you, because she finds you attractive or whether she is just being friendly.
There is no way for a woman not to misinterpret a request for a date, no matter how sincere it is, as anything more than a request made by sincere and open offer.
Unless you knew how deep her feeling was from the onset, you might like to play it by ear. Her feelings would still be tender and so she might not be receptive to the approaches.
Chatting Up Girls By Developing A Friendship First
When you start a conversation, you usually want to ask safe questions that are sure not to cause her any embarrassment. Men have no problem going up to another man and talking about anything, but when it comes to talking to the opposite the subjects suddenly dried out.
And you are likely to get stuck in an awkward silence. THERE IS A DEFINITIVE CURE FOR THIS MENTAL BLOCK.
When starting a conversation with someone you don't know (of any gender), you need to find the way to get the other person talking about herself.
Perfect Words To Say To Start A Conversation With A Woman
You might also want to try to firstly ask woman casually whether guys ask her out a lot and how she handles it. Then when you are about to exit, leave her a letter along with a tip saying something along the lines of:
DearI understand that you get propositioned a lot from guys and because this happens I just want to pledge to you that I will never ask you out no matter how much I think that you are a wonderful, sincere, kind and beautiful.
I will never ever tell you how much that I like you and that I wish that you would go out with me because I know that it would be wrong and that I do not want to be thrown in with the other guys that have asked you out previously.
Yours sincerely
Bottom line: The above is meant to work similar along the lines of reverse psychology.
Most people like to talk about themselves and appreciate the opportunity to talk to someone who's interested in what they have to say.
Technique 6: How to To Pick Up On Interest Signs?
Breaking the ice is just half the encounter. It's also the most nerve-racking to a man. If you have gotten past the introduction, just try to keep the conversation light and entertaining.
Most guys do not pick up on signs very well. The fact that a girl is asking you what you are doing is her way of getting you to ask her out. So many guys miss it. A woman might then assume okay they are not interested and just move on.
They like someone who truly cares about what they are saying, especially if it is something personal to them. Whenever it seems like a girl has a lot on her mind, express genuine interest in wanting to know and possibly help.
Take The Funny Guy Approach And Play It Casual
I would take the funny guy approach and play it casual. Best approach hey we are going to (Bar name) - come join us?
That way you can find out what is going on without torturing yourself. She will most likely go out afterwards. Everything a girl does has a reason behind it. Being responsive shows her that you truly were listening, and care about what she's going through.
Bottom line: If a woman starts to tell you what she's going through don't look away or let something else catch your attention.
Look her in the eyes, nodding occasionally and leaning in a little, not leaning in too much to where its awkward or nodding excessively, which is a giveaway that you aren't listening.
There is no need to be intimidated if you don't want to kick out. If you make a woman uncomfortable by trying to pick her up, YOU WILL INEVITABLY LOSE THE ENCOUNTER.
Women are more interested in developing a friendship first if there is a possibility for a relationship.
Technique 7: What Topics To Talk About In A Conversation With Girls?
Ask the woman light personal questions or make observations about her. I've been amazed how readily women will reveal all kinds of personal things in casual conversation.
Don't think too hard and develop a logical flow from small talk to something deeper.
Keep it simple and let the conversation flourish on its own, she should be helping you out if she is at all worthy of conversation with you.
And remember many females love to be listened too. One of the best conversational gambits one can make, is discovering what the other person is passionate about and then getting them to talk about that.
Discover what you may thought was impossible to accomplish but could be learnt:
Why learn from the "Men's Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going?" eGuide?
Because there’s no replacement for “hands on” experience. You’ll read and be called to implement what you have learnt immediately.You’ll benefit from (and laugh at) stories of real things I will reveal here about relationships with women.
I will teach you how to approach and chat up women. It all really depends on your personality type on whether you want to go for the direct approach or indirect. It doesn't really matter what method you adopt as long as you go ahead with your plans and hopefully get the girl in the end.
Figuring a way to meet a girl or bump into her, is to let her know that you exist, and are interested and for you to find a way to become part of her life if possible. It's what makes a smart or proactive approach.
Bottom line: This smart approach it is basically taking control of your emotions and doing something about them instead of just feeling sorry for oneself and never going for what you want. A proactive approach which gets your mind thinking positively instead of negatively.
To understand dating game is to understand complete relationships game that rules man to women bond and connection, and that will take you a long way in understanding all women.
What Are Appropriate Topics When Starting A Conversation?
You don't even have to ask the "dating or interest" question for the majority of the time. Instead of coming right out and asking if she is available why not just ask her to get together sometime mention something about you and some friends doing this and that and then tell her she should join if she agrees.
Drop her a line tell her the game plan meet up or pick her up which ever talk and then casually mention if she's dating anyone. Chances are if she is out with you than she isn't involved in a serious relationship. If you ask the right questions when you communicate with girls then it's quite easy for you to find out if they have a boyfriend or not.
Get an inside look at what you will learn:1 Fun and interesting topics of conversation with girls2 How to create bond and connection with a woman?3 How to casually mention if she's dating anyone? 4 How to focus on having fun getting her number or email and taking it to the next level? 5 What if low self-esteem stops you from approaching girls for dates?
You’ve just taken your very first step…
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Dating or courtship is the process of choosing and attracting a mate for companionship or marriage. You will learn: phrases for opening conversations with girls, good questions to ask girls to keep conversation going and more...However men find problems with going up to girls and starting conversations. The soulution is to prepare in advance, learn essentials...
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Men's Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going?
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Have you ever wondered why some men find it easy to talk to women and some don’t? What a very few men understand is to effectively communicate with a woman, he must be able to relate to her needs and desires on various levels.
There are several ways in which a man can improve his ability to relate to a woman while talking to her. Men need to be able to relate to this sensitive and caring side of a woman when talking to her.
So what is proper way to initiate conversation and which questions keep conversations interesting?
Proven Methods to Approach and Chat Up Women
In my continuous quest for helping men to attract women I’m about to reveal you proven methods to approach and chat up women. The key for success with women is to keep persisting on improving your social skills and making yourself interesting and attractive person to women.
Just like your professional life time learned skills learning and adopting the behavior that make you attractive to women is an ongoing process, the one never learned in school.
I can not emphasize enough how important it is to make easy steps and keep going UNTIL you reach your ULIMATE GOAL, become attractive to women….
The first and most important step is to learn mastery of talking to women. Coming up with interesting conversation topics, leading conversation from casual to specific tailored themes in an art I’m about to tech you right now.Keep your eyes on your ultimate goal, and continue leaning and improving your conversation with women skills no matter how it goes in the beginning.
One of the most important aspects of relating to a woman is to learn how she thinks and feels. Even though all women are unique, there are some general ways in which they are the same. If a man can understand those underlying common denominators among women, he will be able to relate to and talk to them easier.
Give A Woman Her Share Of The Talk
A very important thing a man can do for women in conversation is to ENCOURAGE HER TO EXPRESS HER IDEAS and views on things. Often men tend to dominate a conversation with a woman by expressing his side of a story and not let the woman who he is talking to express her point of view.
So generally, it is important to give a woman her share of the talk, and be a good listener also.
Now in a blueprint book “Men's Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going?” I will teach you:
FIRST thing first, How to open conversation with a woman?
If you haven't got a lot of experience in the dating game and if you're not sure whether a girl likes you, the key is this - ASSUME she likes you and act accordingly.
Basically, if you assume she likes you, and then your attitude and body language will be far more attractive than if you are constantly thinking "does she like me?" all the time.
What you need to know about ways to lead conversation
What is a good way to start a conversation with a girl?
How to to start a conversation with a girl online?
How to keep someone interested in your conversations?
What if conversation dries up quickly and you go into dreadful uncomfortable silence? Learn new ways to keep conversation going.
Best advice I can give you is to be sociable and talkative with everyone. It will depend on how confident you are as a person, but if you can talk to everyone, then you will be seen as a guy of value and it won't be surprising if a girl likes you. Also, when being talkative and sociable, remember to display a sense of fun, lightheartedness and humor about yourself.
People will then want to be around you and you will give off a positive vibe. Avoid being really quiet and complaining all the time like many people do. I mean, do you honestly like being round someone who is negative?
Don't over-analyze what to say when you pass her by, just say 'hey, how's it going' but make sure you are in an upbeat fun sort of mood, and you will convey your positive energy to her.
Believe me, as long as you keep improving on taught instructions in a “power words” eBook you will eventually master art of leading conversation with women and keeping them attracted to you.
How Do You Keep Conversation Going On A Date?
My solution has been to take it one step at a time. Once you try something, and "get away with it" you realize that in the end it was actually quite easy. That's when your confidence starts to grow, and you start to get the hang of approaching women.
Have you had enough experience talking to girls even those who are not romantic partners, to make any difference, to attract her to you? Sitting around and thinking about what might have been, what you would have said, what she'd say back, etc. is draining. It might feel good, but it doesn't get any work done.
So you need to LEARN:
How to approach and start initial conversation with a woman?
How to make conversations interesting with a girlfriend?
How to bring interesting topics on conversations?
What is the best ways to talk to a girl to keep a conversation interesting?
Believe me, as long as you keep improving on taught instructions in a “power words” eBook you will eventually master art of leading conversation with women and keeping them attracted to you.
So what do successful men actually do to attract women?
The best way to learn fast it to refer to the dating women blueprint that will give you a general outline what should be done first …
The next step you need to learn is UNDERSTANDING THE WAY FEMALE ATTRACTION WORKS. One of the essential skills is to understand female’s perspective of attraction and dating. What makes a man attractive to a woman?
Looks?
Personal charm?
Wealth and money?
Similar interests and common beliefs?
Then you just tailor your approach toward picking conversation topics in a way that triggers attraction towards you as a dating object. Creating attraction and triggering that necessary spark that makes you interesting to woman is related to a special combination of humor, flirting, personal charm and many subliminal and subconscious messages transferred in a proper spontaneous way.
To make sure you are aware of this stage in an attraction game I’ve devoted chapter in “power words” ebook aimed to guide you in creating and leading a conversation with a prospective woman. Here is what you will learn:
Conversation And Signs Of Attraction
How to initiate and keep a conversation with a girl?
What are fun questions to ask to keep a conversation going?
How do you keep a conversation going with the person you like?
Learn the most common used words in conversations.
What question do girls like to be asked so that they start conversations?
And more....
So guys if you want to succeed with women start upon building necessary skill block and most importantly work on it.
If you DON’T TAKE ACTION UPON WHAT YOU’VE ABOUT TO LEARN no dating knowledge will help by itself!YES, I’m going to make some encouragement remarks along the road so you won’t be on you own.
So let’s get started!
Technique 1: Stop Waiting For the Perfect Moment to Approach Women
If you're waiting for the perfect moment or perfect mood to approach someone, actually you might miss many excellent opportunities if you hesitate and at least don’t banter now and then.
So many gurus are teaching “the art of “luring – tricking - dragging” women into bed. I’m definitely not going to. What I’m advocating is making a good human and personal contact with a woman that will eventually progress into love and hopefully into relationship.
Instead of thinking what you will loose (negatively) think of what you can gain (positively). Try to convince a woman as well as yourself that your friendship is an ideal foundation / platform in which to launch your relationship from.
Yes I’m aware that you’ll hear over and over again that pickup lines work! Actually they DON’T! Would you go with a woman just because she regurgitated some of overused, lame sentence?
What always had worked, and is still working is being natural with women and treating them as interesting conversation companions.
When You See A Pretty Girl What Do You Say To Start Conversation?
Girls are generally attracted to fun, confident, positive, upbeat people. Develop a natural inner confidence that exudes outward to the rest of the world. This will help you especially in attracting women. What you need is to be confident, talkative and flirty around women. Ask her open-ended questions and let her tell you about herself.
Then she will "pick up" on your interest towards her without you actually saying it. That's how the whole game of seduction works, and if you break that delicate bubble by verbalizing your interest in her, you're dead.
You, need to understand some basic principles of male - female attraction. The "nice guy" is the shy, unconfident, approval seeking, sexually inhibited man who women only ever like as a friend and NEVER a lover.
SO START GETTING ACQUAINTACES WITH WOMEN NOW!
Technique 2: How to chat up women and get them attracted to you?
The skill to attract, chat up and get laid is a natural gift, for some men, for the other majority it is a skill that should be learned. Women crave relationships and sex with men just as men do.
What’s the difference? It’s just a way women emotionally related to men and the way they express desires.
Don't make approach harder than it has to be. Keep it simple. Next time you see a woman, introduce yourself. Just say "Hi, I've seen you before but don't know your name.... my name is...."
See how she reacts. Then say, "what do you do?". That will open the door for conversation. If it goes well, ask if you can have her extension at work. That is a perfect alternative to lunch, since you may not know so soon if she is interested. You could just say "hey, I'm going on a cappuccino break...have you had a break yet?"
That way, it is not a "date" since it is not lunch and cappuccino is only a dollar or two. If she says no to a "break", then you pretty much have your answer as to what she might say to a "date".
If things go well via office phone, then ask if she'd like to take a break for cappuccino or coffee on your break.
If she says no, then of course don't ask for a date. It's not the end of the world if she says no.
Continue to be polite, but do move on to someone else who returns your feelings of interest. Also, don't wait to invite her for coffee. If you do, someone else may beat you to it.
It’s all about how you communicate with women that really turn them ON, and fire up their natural desire for a masculine presence. As easy at it seems to be it usually takes a lot of effort on a male side to get women attracted to you.
Your chances to win a women’s heart will skyrocket if you follow these STEPS...
How To Keep Conversations Flowing With Interesting Subjects?
Stop waiting for the perfect sentence, and perfect conversation line. Just be natural as if you were talking to some of your female colleagues.
Finding girls is one of the most difficult things in a man's life. but at the same time can be one of the easiest. What I mean is usually when I was concentrating on meeting women, or trying to meet girls or find a date, it has never been easy, and usually never worked out well.
But every time, which is most often, I have sat back and just had a good time doing whatever else I was doing and was myself, is when it happened.
Topics You Could Talk About When Trying To Start A Conversation
See as males we have this strange thing that happens when we meet attractive women, or go single for long periods of time.
Remember that if you are interested in someone, it doesn't have to start with something as heavy as a date. Start by simply getting to know the person first, to determine if you like her enough to ask for a date.
Most women do not like a man to get quick seduced. What they are actually looking for is connection with a person who knows what he wants out of his life and who is pursuing women.
Technique 3:How To Start A Conversation And Keep It Flowing?
Most of the time when approaching women you don’t need to know “what to say” in advance, it will come to you just when you start by “Hi, what’s up?” So here is what you need to learn about starting and opening conversation:
Learn Easy Topics Of Conversation When Getting To Know Someone
What Are Appropriate Topics When Starting A Conversation?
What Are Some Interesting Topics Of Conversation To Raise With A Woman?
What Is The Best Way To Start A Good Conversation Goin With A Girl
What Are The Best Questions To Ask To Keep A Converstaion Interesting?
Women may act differently according to social atmosphere. To me that's part of the fun dating, and even making friends with girls, is finding out what they are really like, and learning more about them in different situations and different moods.
Most people love talking about their partners so if you can coach it out of them during the conversation then it will make your job easier in regards to making yourself happy in relationship.
You're trying to meet someone who lights your fire too. If you set a goal and attain it not only will you impress women more often, but you might even amaze yourself, and raise that self esteem/confidence level.
Don't mold and mend your body or personality for girls or anyone else EVER. Do not think about wanting to be more social but make it happen today. Do it only for yourself. You would much rather be happy with yourself and alone than unhappy with who you are. It's easier to act your way into thinking right than to think your way into acting.
What Topics Are Great To Start A Conversation With Women?
Nothing attracts women like self confidence. Seemingly impossible for some men who get stuck and powerless when they get in encounter. I now it can be worked out too.
Showing self confidence is a strong power sign because it’s always been attribute of natural attraction. Why do you think some women fall for jerks?
You should be totally happy with your life before you start meeting / dating / trying to add women into your life.
Another thing was being shy about your looks. That's something you could change. Perhaps you could try working out, dieting, changing eating habits, but not with the intention of getting girls.
If you were to do that, I would hope you do it to help your own self esteem, and make you feel better about yourself. There is almost nothing women love more than a man with confidence, goals, and dreams. If you set a goal and attain it not only will you impress women more often, but you might even amaze yourself, and raise that self esteem - confidence level!
Do it only for yourself. You would rather be happy with Yourself and alone than unhappy with who You are.
Technique 4: What Questions To Ask A Girl To Get A Conversation Going?
The biggest mistake men do is ignoring the reality. When approaching a girl, how do you know if she is isn't already married or has a boyfriend?
Does she even want company of a guy at the moment?
When you ask a girl for your number, sure; she certainly expects you to call sometime soon! You never know, she may be more interested when you probably think. It's it times to see these things.
1. Call her! Once you get her number, she expects you to!2. Don't try to kiss her on the first date.3. Don't try to kiss her on the second date (she may not know for sure if she wants that yet).4. Keep going on dates until you know FOR SURE she wants you to kiss her.
Kissing on the first date isn't a good idea. I don't encourage it unless the moment is absolutely perfect and the both of you can feel that. I've been kissed on the first date twice.
The first time, It wasn't nice and I was completely turned off. I wished that I would have gotten the chance to know her better. Afterwards, feelings were much deeper, and I had felt more passion in that moment ever before.
These skills are critical to developing self-confidence in the presence of a girl you are attracted to, as well as for social acceptance.One of the biggest challenges is getting to notice the signals from the opposite sex.
Introducing yourself…
Don’t expect success with women just from the first attempt. Nothing happens from the first tryout. One of the first tricks to keeping a conversation going is to keep your intellectual mind-set focused on the current conversation.
I believe that the more time that you spend with woman the more closer a bond that you will form. This will only be possible if you do this on a one on one basis.
Then when you do get an opportunity make the most of it and show her a good time. Don't try anything during those dates just keep it casual and light.
So often I take notice of troubles associated to opening a conversation like this: "I've been preparing to talk to a girl, but at the moment I am about to do it I break out in a cold sweat and give up."
Ask A Woman Casual Questions To Get The Conversation Started
What you need is practice and you will learn from your experience. The more frequently you see each other, the more of a bond and connection that you will form. If you can make her laugh that would be even better. In summary there isn't necessarily anything particular that you can say or do that will sweep her off her feet.
If she chooses you then it would have been a culmination of things that she will have found attractive about you. Be yourself and try to put your best foot forward. Show her how much you like her by being attentive to her needs. I do not mean doing things for her continuously but also give her emotional support.
Listen carefully to what she is saying because more often or not valuable clues can be found on how to impress her. Women like guys with passion and a plan. If you have something that you are particularly passionate about or like tell her. Otherwise just relax and enjoy her company.
Don't try and figure it all out in your head before hand, take the time to learn through experience. It's easiest if you remove the roadblocks you are experiencing one by one.
Technique 5: Ways To Introduce Yourself To Someone You Like Without Looking Desperate
Move yourself to environments where people like to converse. The parties and bars are places where women are relaxed and usually looking for fun or social partners.
The most effective way to get someone interested in you is to show an interest in him or her. If you adopt an attitude that is accepting and open, and show that you are concerned in the other person, you will look like you are interested in conversation with them.
Never feel bad about having a go at chatting to a girl because you are basically doing what every other guy and girl is doing on the planet. If she is not the right girl for you then so be it. There are plenty of other girls out there for you to meet.
Despite the fact that girls has been very friendly to you it would be extremely difficult to determine whether the girl drew the heart to you, because she finds you attractive or whether she is just being friendly.
There is no way for a woman not to misinterpret a request for a date, no matter how sincere it is, as anything more than a request made by sincere and open offer.
Unless you knew how deep her feeling was from the onset, you might like to play it by ear. Her feelings would still be tender and so she might not be receptive to the approaches.
Chatting Up Girls By Developing A Friendship First
When you start a conversation, you usually want to ask safe questions that are sure not to cause her any embarrassment. Men have no problem going up to another man and talking about anything, but when it comes to talking to the opposite the subjects suddenly dried out.
And you are likely to get stuck in an awkward silence. THERE IS A DEFINITIVE CURE FOR THIS MENTAL BLOCK.
When starting a conversation with someone you don't know (of any gender), you need to find the way to get the other person talking about herself.
Perfect Words To Say To Start A Conversation With A Woman
You might also want to try to firstly ask woman casually whether guys ask her out a lot and how she handles it. Then when you are about to exit, leave her a letter along with a tip saying something along the lines of:
Dear
I will never ever tell you how much that I like you and that I wish that you would go out with me because I know that it would be wrong and that I do not want to be thrown in with the other guys that have asked you out previously.
Yours sincerely
Bottom line: The above is meant to work similar along the lines of reverse psychology.
Most people like to talk about themselves and appreciate the opportunity to talk to someone who's interested in what they have to say.
Technique 6: How to To Pick Up On Interest Signs?
Breaking the ice is just half the encounter. It's also the most nerve-racking to a man. If you have gotten past the introduction, just try to keep the conversation light and entertaining.
Most guys do not pick up on signs very well. The fact that a girl is asking you what you are doing is her way of getting you to ask her out. So many guys miss it. A woman might then assume okay they are not interested and just move on.
They like someone who truly cares about what they are saying, especially if it is something personal to them. Whenever it seems like a girl has a lot on her mind, express genuine interest in wanting to know and possibly help.
Take The Funny Guy Approach And Play It Casual
I would take the funny guy approach and play it casual. Best approach hey we are going to (Bar name) - come join us?
That way you can find out what is going on without torturing yourself. She will most likely go out afterwards. Everything a girl does has a reason behind it. Being responsive shows her that you truly were listening, and care about what she's going through.
Bottom line: If a woman starts to tell you what she's going through don't look away or let something else catch your attention.
Look her in the eyes, nodding occasionally and leaning in a little, not leaning in too much to where its awkward or nodding excessively, which is a giveaway that you aren't listening.
There is no need to be intimidated if you don't want to kick out. If you make a woman uncomfortable by trying to pick her up, YOU WILL INEVITABLY LOSE THE ENCOUNTER.
Women are more interested in developing a friendship first if there is a possibility for a relationship.
Technique 7: What Topics To Talk About In A Conversation With Girls?
Ask the woman light personal questions or make observations about her. I've been amazed how readily women will reveal all kinds of personal things in casual conversation.
Don't think too hard and develop a logical flow from small talk to something deeper.
Keep it simple and let the conversation flourish on its own, she should be helping you out if she is at all worthy of conversation with you.
And remember many females love to be listened too. One of the best conversational gambits one can make, is discovering what the other person is passionate about and then getting them to talk about that.
Discover what you may thought was impossible to accomplish but could be learnt:
Why learn from the "Men's Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going?" eGuide?
Because there’s no replacement for “hands on” experience. You’ll read and be called to implement what you have learnt immediately.You’ll benefit from (and laugh at) stories of real things I will reveal here about relationships with women.
I will teach you how to approach and chat up women. It all really depends on your personality type on whether you want to go for the direct approach or indirect. It doesn't really matter what method you adopt as long as you go ahead with your plans and hopefully get the girl in the end.
Figuring a way to meet a girl or bump into her, is to let her know that you exist, and are interested and for you to find a way to become part of her life if possible. It's what makes a smart or proactive approach.
Bottom line: This smart approach it is basically taking control of your emotions and doing something about them instead of just feeling sorry for oneself and never going for what you want. A proactive approach which gets your mind thinking positively instead of negatively.
To understand dating game is to understand complete relationships game that rules man to women bond and connection, and that will take you a long way in understanding all women.
What Are Appropriate Topics When Starting A Conversation?
You don't even have to ask the "dating or interest" question for the majority of the time. Instead of coming right out and asking if she is available why not just ask her to get together sometime mention something about you and some friends doing this and that and then tell her she should join if she agrees.
Drop her a line tell her the game plan meet up or pick her up which ever talk and then casually mention if she's dating anyone. Chances are if she is out with you than she isn't involved in a serious relationship. If you ask the right questions when you communicate with girls then it's quite easy for you to find out if they have a boyfriend or not.
Get an inside look at what you will learn:1 Fun and interesting topics of conversation with girls2 How to create bond and connection with a woman?3 How to casually mention if she's dating anyone? 4 How to focus on having fun getting her number or email and taking it to the next level? 5 What if low self-esteem stops you from approaching girls for dates?
You’ve just taken your very first step…
To Rule The Conversation with Women, download the guide "Men's Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going? and start improving your dating skills immediately!
Saturday, November 8, 2008
HOW TO GET OVER BREAK UP OR DIVORCE
1.Examine what happened, and ask yourself why. You have to make it clear to yourself that this may not be entirely your fault - or not your fault at all. Really thinking about the reasons it ended can make it clearer to you that it takes two people to start a relationship, but one discordant person is enough to end it. It may also help you avoid missteps in the future if you can identify areas where you contributed to the demise of the relationship.
2.Don't rethink your decision. If the breakup was your decision, bear in mind that thinking about all the good times you had may cause you to forget the reason for why you broke it off. By the same token, try not to second guess if the decision to end things was not yours. It's very common to overly romanticize the good parts of a relationship, convincing yourself that maybe the bad parts weren't so bad after all, maybe you could live with them. Or that maybe if your ex could know just how you feel, s/he wouldn't want to break up after all. Don't play this game with yourself. Accept the situation and move on.
3.Keep your distance. Even if you and your ex have decided to stay friends, take a complete break from each other immediately after the breakup. That means no seeing each other, no phone calls, no e-mails, no Instant Messaging, and most importantly, no sex - not necessarily as a permanent measure (except where sex is concerned), but until you feel that you can converse with him/her like a normal person, without an ulterior motive (and yes, wanting to get back together counts as an ulterior motive). Also, if he or she tries to ask you to see him/her, make sure you question yourself of what good can come out of it. You don't want to relive the past by seeing him/her otherwise you'll get caught up by that moment and it will be hard to let go again.
4.Accept your pain. Have your good long cries if you feel like it. It's okay to be hurt, feel alone, and feel like you have messed up. Accepting responsibility for your mistakes or shortcomings is healthy, but you must also accept that you are a good person, and this is not all one-sided. Of course, a stage of denial is completely natural, but acceptance is the key to being able to begin to move on.
Think through everything thoroughly, but not obsessively. Go ahead and mull it over, as many times as necessary, within reason. Consider all the reasons you two broke up. Even if it seems there wasn't a good reason, there certainly was one - and probably more than one. Understand that you enjoyed one another for a while, but even though everything seemed okay to you, if the relationship was not what your partner wanted for life, it would have ended eventually, no matter what. In this case, better sooner than later.
5.Deal with the hate phase. This is where you want to just scream because you are so angry, even furious. The amount of anger you feel all depends on how bad the split was, how it occurred (was there infidelity? That makes it worse), and how long it took to make the final break. There may be feelings of resentment at your ex for wasting your time. You may realize the breakup was inevitable (hindsight will reveal clues you failed to notice at the time). You may even feel like you hate yourself, but let go of that feeling fast! It's a waste of time to be hating and ripping yourself apart over something you no longer have the power to change.
6.Talk to your friends. They are always a source of advice and help. If you are close with any family members, they may be a good source of advice/guidance. You want people around you that love you and who will help you see that you should love yourself too. Surrounding yourself with compassionate, loving friends and family will help you see yourself as a worthwhile, worthy person again, and you'll find it easier to get steady on your feet again with your loved ones around you in a comforting net.
7.Write all your feelings down. Write in a journal or write poems. Most of all, be absolutely honest and don't edit yourself as you go. One of the best results of writing it all down is that sometimes you will be amazed by a sudden insight that comes to you as you are pouring out your thoughts onto paper. Patterns may become clearer, and as your grieving begins to lessen, you will find it so much easier to "get" valuable life lessons from the whole experience if you've been writing your way through it. No relationship is ever a failure if you manage to learn something about yourself from having gone through it all with your heart open to both joy and pain. Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean it wasn't a necessary part of your journey to becoming who you're meant to be. Allow at least the learning part to enrich your life.
8.Clean up! A breakup can signify a new beginning. Therefore, cleaning your personal space will leave you feeling refreshed and prepared for the new things to come. A mess can be overwhelming and depressing, and will just add to your stress level. The added bonus is that keeping busy with tidying your space doesn't require a lot of brain power, but does require just enough focus to keep you from recycling pain. Occupying yourself with these tasks designed to make your life better and easier will also occupy your mind enough to help you through the residual pain.
9.Keep fond memories, discard painful ones. Sometimes there are things that remind us of another person. Say, you hear a song or see a picture that reminds you of your ex, you probably get all sad and worked up. Well, instead of feeling that way, turn the station and move on - don't dwell on the pain. But if you have a keepsake, such as a watch or a pin that was given to you by your ex, and it makes you feel good to wear it and remember the good parts of your relationship, by all means, do so.
10.Find happiness in other areas of your life. Whether that means spending time with your friends and family, taking up that class you've always wanted to take, or reading every book on the New York Times bestseller list, remind yourself that a relationship is one part of life, but even when you are in one, there are personal pleasures that you can always enjoy on your own. Indulge in those things now. As they say, the best revenge is living well.
11.Stay active. It's scientifically confirmed that exercise improves your mood, and the distraction will help keep your mind off the situation. Go running outside, maybe with a friend, and think of releasing the anger or sadness with every step.
Let go. See that there is no sense in still being heartbroken, regretful, and harboring hatred toward that person. Realize that although your relationship with that person was unique and special in a lot of ways, you can congratulate yourself for being brave enough to take a risk and fall in love, and encourage your heart that even though love didn't work out this time, there will be a next time.
Take Time. Find a place where you feel comfortable, relaxed, and which is far away from your ex. Take a moment to listen, and to be alone or with someone you trust. Remind yourself that the only thing worse than the pain of a breakup is continuing a relationship that was not right for one or both of you.
12.Think positively. Now that you are single, you get to find someone else to go out with,find someone new, and different. This doesnt have to be so bad. Change your behaviors; that will help change your thinking. Of course, don't forget about respecting other peoples' thoughts and feelings while feeling released and free, and always remember to be true to yourself.
2.Don't rethink your decision. If the breakup was your decision, bear in mind that thinking about all the good times you had may cause you to forget the reason for why you broke it off. By the same token, try not to second guess if the decision to end things was not yours. It's very common to overly romanticize the good parts of a relationship, convincing yourself that maybe the bad parts weren't so bad after all, maybe you could live with them. Or that maybe if your ex could know just how you feel, s/he wouldn't want to break up after all. Don't play this game with yourself. Accept the situation and move on.
3.Keep your distance. Even if you and your ex have decided to stay friends, take a complete break from each other immediately after the breakup. That means no seeing each other, no phone calls, no e-mails, no Instant Messaging, and most importantly, no sex - not necessarily as a permanent measure (except where sex is concerned), but until you feel that you can converse with him/her like a normal person, without an ulterior motive (and yes, wanting to get back together counts as an ulterior motive). Also, if he or she tries to ask you to see him/her, make sure you question yourself of what good can come out of it. You don't want to relive the past by seeing him/her otherwise you'll get caught up by that moment and it will be hard to let go again.
4.Accept your pain. Have your good long cries if you feel like it. It's okay to be hurt, feel alone, and feel like you have messed up. Accepting responsibility for your mistakes or shortcomings is healthy, but you must also accept that you are a good person, and this is not all one-sided. Of course, a stage of denial is completely natural, but acceptance is the key to being able to begin to move on.
Think through everything thoroughly, but not obsessively. Go ahead and mull it over, as many times as necessary, within reason. Consider all the reasons you two broke up. Even if it seems there wasn't a good reason, there certainly was one - and probably more than one. Understand that you enjoyed one another for a while, but even though everything seemed okay to you, if the relationship was not what your partner wanted for life, it would have ended eventually, no matter what. In this case, better sooner than later.
5.Deal with the hate phase. This is where you want to just scream because you are so angry, even furious. The amount of anger you feel all depends on how bad the split was, how it occurred (was there infidelity? That makes it worse), and how long it took to make the final break. There may be feelings of resentment at your ex for wasting your time. You may realize the breakup was inevitable (hindsight will reveal clues you failed to notice at the time). You may even feel like you hate yourself, but let go of that feeling fast! It's a waste of time to be hating and ripping yourself apart over something you no longer have the power to change.
6.Talk to your friends. They are always a source of advice and help. If you are close with any family members, they may be a good source of advice/guidance. You want people around you that love you and who will help you see that you should love yourself too. Surrounding yourself with compassionate, loving friends and family will help you see yourself as a worthwhile, worthy person again, and you'll find it easier to get steady on your feet again with your loved ones around you in a comforting net.
7.Write all your feelings down. Write in a journal or write poems. Most of all, be absolutely honest and don't edit yourself as you go. One of the best results of writing it all down is that sometimes you will be amazed by a sudden insight that comes to you as you are pouring out your thoughts onto paper. Patterns may become clearer, and as your grieving begins to lessen, you will find it so much easier to "get" valuable life lessons from the whole experience if you've been writing your way through it. No relationship is ever a failure if you manage to learn something about yourself from having gone through it all with your heart open to both joy and pain. Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean it wasn't a necessary part of your journey to becoming who you're meant to be. Allow at least the learning part to enrich your life.
8.Clean up! A breakup can signify a new beginning. Therefore, cleaning your personal space will leave you feeling refreshed and prepared for the new things to come. A mess can be overwhelming and depressing, and will just add to your stress level. The added bonus is that keeping busy with tidying your space doesn't require a lot of brain power, but does require just enough focus to keep you from recycling pain. Occupying yourself with these tasks designed to make your life better and easier will also occupy your mind enough to help you through the residual pain.
9.Keep fond memories, discard painful ones. Sometimes there are things that remind us of another person. Say, you hear a song or see a picture that reminds you of your ex, you probably get all sad and worked up. Well, instead of feeling that way, turn the station and move on - don't dwell on the pain. But if you have a keepsake, such as a watch or a pin that was given to you by your ex, and it makes you feel good to wear it and remember the good parts of your relationship, by all means, do so.
10.Find happiness in other areas of your life. Whether that means spending time with your friends and family, taking up that class you've always wanted to take, or reading every book on the New York Times bestseller list, remind yourself that a relationship is one part of life, but even when you are in one, there are personal pleasures that you can always enjoy on your own. Indulge in those things now. As they say, the best revenge is living well.
11.Stay active. It's scientifically confirmed that exercise improves your mood, and the distraction will help keep your mind off the situation. Go running outside, maybe with a friend, and think of releasing the anger or sadness with every step.
Let go. See that there is no sense in still being heartbroken, regretful, and harboring hatred toward that person. Realize that although your relationship with that person was unique and special in a lot of ways, you can congratulate yourself for being brave enough to take a risk and fall in love, and encourage your heart that even though love didn't work out this time, there will be a next time.
Take Time. Find a place where you feel comfortable, relaxed, and which is far away from your ex. Take a moment to listen, and to be alone or with someone you trust. Remind yourself that the only thing worse than the pain of a breakup is continuing a relationship that was not right for one or both of you.
12.Think positively. Now that you are single, you get to find someone else to go out with,find someone new, and different. This doesnt have to be so bad. Change your behaviors; that will help change your thinking. Of course, don't forget about respecting other peoples' thoughts and feelings while feeling released and free, and always remember to be true to yourself.
KNOW FEMALE BODY LANGUAGE
Here are some sure shot ways to figure out whether your lady is waiting for you to ask her out...
Does she keep bumping into you?
"Raima and I were in the same office. She used to put in a lot of effort so that I noticed her sometimes on the way to the restroom or in the corridors. She deliberately used to pass by where I was seated, though the restrooms were nowhere near me. Somehow, our timings matched so much that I use to find her in the canteen, at the coffee machine, in the parking lot; needless to say this was all planned by her. This was a very clear and open invite, I finally mustered up the courage to ask her out for a dinner date one day and her eagerness shocked me," chuckles Manish Sharma married to Raima since the past two years.
Hot Tip: If you suddenly start finding your girl just about everywhere, chances are that she is thinking ahead to make sure she runs into you. It's only a matter of time before your eyes meet. What she's doing is trying hard to make you observe her and give you a chance to make that vital first move. However, the trouble with this 'she-approach' is that men are sometimes ignorant about what's going on in a woman's mind space and as a result, they let pass a lot of chance. So, the next time a woman starts appearing frequently in your way, be observant, for she is most likely doing it on purpose.
She makes all the right moves
Believe it or not, but non-verbal flirting gestures flow freely when a woman is interested in a man. Such signals may range from her pointing in your direction with her foot or shoulders, tossing her hair to mirroring your body movements.
Hot Tip: Communication specialist Heer Wadhera explains, "If a female licks her lips while talking to you, she is sending out a clear signal that she is actually looking forward to something more than just talking to you. Similarly, if your girl plays with her jewellery, strokes her glass or freezes her eyes on you while talking, she is anticipating a date invite."
Adds Vinay Sood, a creative manager at an advertising agency, "Observe the way she looks at you. If she looks at you when you are not looking at her and turns her gaze away when you make eye contact, she is very much interested in you. A warm smile is also a sure shot open invitation and an indication that she is open to cultivating a deep friendship with you." If you become conscious of such signals, you can be sure whether or not your love interest is ready for your proposal.
Does she keep bumping into you?
"Raima and I were in the same office. She used to put in a lot of effort so that I noticed her sometimes on the way to the restroom or in the corridors. She deliberately used to pass by where I was seated, though the restrooms were nowhere near me. Somehow, our timings matched so much that I use to find her in the canteen, at the coffee machine, in the parking lot; needless to say this was all planned by her. This was a very clear and open invite, I finally mustered up the courage to ask her out for a dinner date one day and her eagerness shocked me," chuckles Manish Sharma married to Raima since the past two years.
Hot Tip: If you suddenly start finding your girl just about everywhere, chances are that she is thinking ahead to make sure she runs into you. It's only a matter of time before your eyes meet. What she's doing is trying hard to make you observe her and give you a chance to make that vital first move. However, the trouble with this 'she-approach' is that men are sometimes ignorant about what's going on in a woman's mind space and as a result, they let pass a lot of chance. So, the next time a woman starts appearing frequently in your way, be observant, for she is most likely doing it on purpose.
She makes all the right moves
Believe it or not, but non-verbal flirting gestures flow freely when a woman is interested in a man. Such signals may range from her pointing in your direction with her foot or shoulders, tossing her hair to mirroring your body movements.
Hot Tip: Communication specialist Heer Wadhera explains, "If a female licks her lips while talking to you, she is sending out a clear signal that she is actually looking forward to something more than just talking to you. Similarly, if your girl plays with her jewellery, strokes her glass or freezes her eyes on you while talking, she is anticipating a date invite."
Adds Vinay Sood, a creative manager at an advertising agency, "Observe the way she looks at you. If she looks at you when you are not looking at her and turns her gaze away when you make eye contact, she is very much interested in you. A warm smile is also a sure shot open invitation and an indication that she is open to cultivating a deep friendship with you." If you become conscious of such signals, you can be sure whether or not your love interest is ready for your proposal.
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